Well, EVERYONE likes to be pampered.
In my vast experience of never being married, it seems to me that being a TEAM where people are loyal and have each other's backs really matters. I mean, even in a FRIENDSHIP it pays to be relationship minded and value what your friend values. Seriously, my life would be significantly improved if I came home everyday and there was someone there to say, "It's so good to see you, dear."
Also, if my husband worked all day and all I needed to do was make sure that he had a meal ready when he came home....PUUHHHLEEEZE. That's like a dream world. Basically, I'd be at home pursuing all my hobbies and interests except for an hour or so where I could shower, get a meal going, and drink a glass of wine while I waited for him to arrive home. That's what I call LIVING THE DREAM. The only way it could be MORE PERFECT was if he was super-attractive, taciturn, and gave good footrubs. (Oh honey! It's been such a hard day reading and dabbling in some writing...could you rub my feet?) THEN, I could drink my wine, look at his pretty, pretty face, and relax before serving him his dinner.