That is what men call “a trap.” 🤣🤣 You are either thought a coward if you don’t answer, or in serious trouble if you answer truthfully. And then guilted into “being honest” if you try and outsmart them by saying what they want to hear.
Let’s see if I can somehow unclog this mess...they want you to answer in the way they want you to answer, but they want it to be what you really think is correct. They want you to be on the same page as them. If not, it means that maybe you don’t love them as much as they love you/you say you love them. The ultimate question they are asking is, “Do you love me? Am I worth waiting for? Am I worth that to you?”
I’m sure if they asked those questions straight out, you’d say “Duh, of course!” But of course that’s not how most women work if the subject is a lady. They wanna test to be sure what you “really think” but indirectly. Because maybe we think it’s more honest that way...??? Eh. Can’t say about men who may do the same/similar thing.
Some of the few I could think of are:
“If I died would you marry again?”
“Which of my friends do you think is prettiest/most handsome?”
“Would you have still married me if I were ugly/short/fat?”