I'm going to tell you something Zero.....
You don't need good looks, you don't need deep pockets. I've seen fat, balding, and ugly dudes with knockouts.
Women like men who show up, and ask them to the ball. They like a man who is content, that can live on their own, and goes to work every day. Women want a man that can make them safe. God made men to war for women, and a warrior he should be. No woman ever gave her heart to a man, just cause he was lonely.
Be the man, she needs you to be. Be the man God made you to be for her.