Well, I guess that it's enough that you don't see it in yourself... was just wondering and I hope it didn't offend.
A small example, since you asked... it seems to me that you constantly/consistently refer to the IDF actions as blowing up civilians, while I guess that it's technically accurate, that isn't (imho) their goal at all... and it comes across (to me, anyway) as overly emotional and designed to elicit guilt in whomever you're responding to.
We all get the innocents are dying. Personally, I see it as tragic... I think that most others do too. But it saturates virtually every posting of yours. I just don't know how it can be avoided... and I, somewhat have Anabaptist leanings on the subject. Nevertheless, when wars are fought people, innocent people, die... been that way since the beginning.
But the histrionics seems to come into play when after we have explained our position, you continue on as if we haven't heard you or understood you. And keep saying, Innocents are being killed... ruthlessly.
We don't see it as ruthless.
Does any of that make sense?