I Don't Like Men

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VineyardsOfEngedi said:
I have this huge, extreme, major, disgust disappoint of men. How do I get rid of this?
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Ha , You're awesome .. Remember this, every man has a disgusting inner dog yearning to be free 2 .. Quit trying to henpeck us 3 ..No, We'd rather watch football on TV 4 .. Why do you use so many adverbs , just say what you mean in one sentence or less 5 ..Yes, yes yes you look OK, no I didn't notice your new hairdo but it looks OK too .. and 6 did I mention ''quit trying to henpeck us ''
 
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To be sure, I don't like it when men are hen-pecked or portrayed as bumbling idiots ad nauseum, but..........
 
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ive got no reason to hate women. I had to deal with a few memorable ones in the workplace but some guys too.
Women in groups. Now there is a force to reckoned with. I feel for minority male workplaces.
 
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Dear @VineyardsOfEngedi,

I understand your feelings. I don't think your hatred is coming from a place of self-righteousness or anything like that. It seems instead that you have been very hurt by some of men in your life. As women, we are very vulnerable to violence inflicted by men (whether it be sexual, physical, emotional, etc). It becomes very hard to love or trust men when it seems like all they're trying to do is take advantage of us. I might get some backlash for this, but I believe your feelings are valid. It is completely understandable that you may feel endangered or disgusted by men if you have had awful past experiences. I'm sure this is especially distressing to you because you have a daughter who is starting to date.

I have experienced a lot of hatred for men in my own life. I had an emotionally abusive father and my sister is a CSA survivor. Men have the power to hurt our bodies and minds and I hate that. A lot of the hatred you (and many other women) feel may be a result of trust issues. You don't trust men with yourself and you certainly don't trust them to treat your daughter right. There are some very wonderful men. There are also some really rotten men. I believe that, through prayer and trusting in Jesus, He will bless you with the ability to discern the intentions of men you encounter. We are women. Our bodies are a precious gift but they are also vulnerable. It makes perfect sense for you to have your guard up. But I believe trusting God will allow you to regain trust and love for some men. Not all of them, but the good ones.
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Thank you, I appreciate you sharing. And I do hope to meet these "wonderful" men someday. I grew up hearing God is trustworthy and I thought I did and maybe I do but its been hard to trust him, but yes I hear its possible. It's true that a lot of my hurt derives from men but the original post was not solely based on them (even though I addressed them lol). I was just expressing disgust for indifference, etc. Anyways, I only posted again cause I wanted to share that conversation I had with my daughter. :giggle:
 
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Ha , You're awesome .. Remember this, every man has a disgusting inner dog yearning to be free 2 .. Quit trying to henpeck us 3 ..No, We'd rather watch football on TV 4 .. Why do you use so many adverbs , just say what you mean in one sentence or less 5 ..Yes, yes yes you look OK, no I didn't notice your new hairdo but it looks OK too .. and 6 did I mention ''quit trying to henpeck us ''
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Sometimes I know I am, jk :p. Um men should keep the dogs tamed. I like words, written words and I do say what I mean most of the time people don't like it lol. I think my first post was one sentence :LOL:. I had to google henpeck haha.
 
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My son who is 20 has waited.
He hasn't even bothered to try and date. He says he has no time for it right now. He said one day, why do I need a girlfriend right now? So I can neglect her like the other guys do?
He said, that's not fair to her.
My 14 year old boy said one day, oh yes I want to have a girlfriend... Lol, what's going to happen? Mom or Dad is going to drive us on a date? He said I'll wait until it's time then when I am ready to look for a wife I will date.
There are boys who wait. There are men still waiting.
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I'm happy for you sons and their future wives if and when they do get married. :)
 
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VineyardsOfEngedi said:
That's right you better hide lol jk…. not lol
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Homer was slipping away , he knows the ropes winkwink .. lol , I hoped you knew I was playin .. My wife did try to henpeck me the first 7 yrs though, listening to her friends and such .. Right now shes in the living room watching ''her programs'' on/off the telephone just chillin ..
 
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VineyardsOfEngedi said:
I wonder if they're funny in other languages, in Spanish they still are.
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I'm sure they are in many languages and I still remember some I thought were genius .. When I was younger I refused to let my kids watch it ..
 
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Homer was slipping away , he knows the ropes winkwink .. lol , I hoped you knew I was playin .. My wife did try to henpeck me the first 7 yrs though, listening to her friends and such .. Right now shes in the living room watching ''her programs'' on/off the telephone just chillin ..
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lol what does "her programs" suppose to mean?
 
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I'm sure they are in many languages and I still remember some I thought were genius .. When I was younger I refused to let my kids watch it ..
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Yea I don't watch them anymore and didn't let my daughter watch them when she was younger. But did you know they predict the future? Lol a Trump was destined to be president lol🤣
 
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VineyardsOfEngedi said:
lol what does "her programs" suppose to mean?
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lol, you know that crazy stuff ya'll watch, right now, cooking baking championship .. nothing exciting like Homer watching bowling eating potato chips while wearing his drawers ..
 
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lol, you know that crazy stuff ya'll watch, right now, cooking baking championship .. nothing exciting like Homer watching bowling eating potato chips while wearing his drawers ..
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Actually, I don't know. Im watching John Wayne, as we type lol -.-
 
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John Wayne is acceptable , my wife loves John Wayne and Elvis .. I remind her of John Wayne and I've been #1 ever since Elvis succumbed to the pressure from former #2 or either it was something he ate, either way #2 got him .... lol
 
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