If you only see baptism as getting wet, then you need a serious reexamining of your heart. There is no saving Grace in the element of water. The saving Grace comes from the believer placing their faith in Christ and what baptism stands for not the water itself.
It's when you go into a river or the sea and wash yourself.
That is the actual meaning .
Being baptized in the holy spirit is to be washed clean in the spirit .
Baptism saves but only one baptism.To be washed in water does not save anyone.Being baptized in the holy spirit saves.
Mark 16
15 And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.
16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned.