Luke 14:26 If any man come to me, and hate [Greek μισέω (miseō)] not his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brethren, and sisters, yea, and his own life also, he cannot be my disciple.
Do you really believe Jesus is telling His disciples to "hate" his/her father, mother, wife, children, brothers, sisters, and him/herself?
And look at what Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:
43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate [Greek μισέω (miseō)] thine enemy.
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
45 That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.
46 For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?
47 And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so?
48 Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.
Following your analogy / understanding, God tells us to do something He is unwilling to do. He tells us to love our enemies, bless them, do good to them, pray for them. But in your analogy / understanding, God did not do the same for Esau.
And you have to completely remove Matt 5:45 from Scripture.
Are you aware that God gave Esau an inheritance?
Deuteronomy 2:
4 And command thou the people, saying, Ye are to pass through the coast of your brethren the children of Esau, which dwell in Seir; and they shall be afraid of you: take ye good heed unto yourselves therefore:
5 Meddle not with them; for I will not give you of their land, no, not so much as a foot breadth; because I have given mount Seir unto Esau for a possession [Hebrew ְ רֻשָּׁ֣ה yə-ruš-šāh = possession, inheritance].
Joshua 24:4 And I gave unto Isaac Jacob and Esau: and I gave unto Esau mount Seir, to possess it; but Jacob and his children went down into Egypt.
Now you're changing Scripture to support your doctrine rather than change your doctrine in order to follow Scripture. Poor workmanship (2 Tim 2:15).