This is the key to understanding what many will miss unless your pastor is skilled at exegetical expository teaching.
Titus 2:11-12
For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men, teaching us that,
denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteously, and godly
in the present age.
Your own supposition on how to read the text could never tell you what the Word of God is actually conveying in verse 12.
Not understood unless someone can teach you from the Greek, and teach it with depth... not just resorting to Greek word studies.
The Greek word translated
"teaching" is not the word used for a typical classroom setting.
It speaks of a different way to teach.
Parents sometimes use this technique when dealing with an obstinate child...
This way of teaching according to the Greek means letting someone get hurt by learning the hard way.
Sometimes referred to as '
the school of hard knocks.'
It means allowing someone (after is made aware of something being wrong) to go ahead and do it.
After they get hurt and burned enough times?
Then they learn to say,
"NO!"
That is how in Titus 2:12 God's grace teaches all men to say no to ungodliness...
It also explains why even unbelievers as they mature seek to live in morality.
I was truly blessed to finally understand another way in how God teaches us.. and is from Him when we mess up our lives.
I learned of this from this pastor...
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Grace and peace ............