Even being a Christian we sometimes must go back to the core and make sure the devil has not slipped in lies amongst truth. Especially dealing with mens opinions.
All of us can be guilty of confirmation bias at some point or another, but in most cases it comes from those who are still spiritually immature. Many will not post on particular subjects that they do not feel confident about adequately defending, while others will jump into the fray without having a clue what they are talking about and are incapable of coherently refuting the opposition.
Opinions are one thing, but again, truth is not a subjective thing when dealing with the Christian worldview. Scripture clearly defines and reveals objective truths of God that cannot be disputed. I understand that there are peripheral subjects that we can agree to disagree on, but then there are other "core" truths that are undeniable and must be defended. This thread is in defense of one of those indisputable truths.
We have to look at scripture as a whole and not a little verse here, a little verse there, just because it looks nice and confirms our presuppositions. We can very easily make scripture contradict itself this way and abuse it. We have to look at the whole picture. Most who want to jump on here and make claims haven't even read through the entire bible once, or at lest the New Testament for that matter. I was guilty of it when I first came here. In fact I wasn't even saved yet when I started here, but felt I knew enough to make claims. Wow, was that an embarrassing and shameful experience.
You yourself have made some pretty bizarre claims but in the light of legitimate opposition resort to "well we all have different opinions" and in several posts imply that some of us only believe what we believe because some man said it, while refusing to address scripture that backs up legitimate opposing views.
What's funny is seeing the people who accuse others of hanging on the words of men as their source of truth, quickly run to websites of people who confirm their own presuppositions and use their material as their defense. If someone doesn't understand the subject being discussed enough to defend their own point of view, it might be a good idea to remain quiet and learn from those who can.
And for the record, I don't identify as a Calvinist for this very reason and prefer the words Monergist or Reformed.