As long as you continue to preach we must work to maintain salvation, I will worry about you, and everyone like you who are depending no on God to save and change you, But in your ability of your own strength to do what is needed to save yourself (call it maintain, or keep or whatever, it is all the same) If I did not worry about you, I would be but pitiful, uncaring human being
Your right, we are not to grieve the HS, We are not to call him a liar either.