OK. Agreed.
Responsive living and coupled with the above responsible living. OK.
OK. I agree motivation or intent is important and quite possibly more important than many realize as we have a God who can see into our inner depths and will judge accordingly.
No, actually I don't. I was raised on can't lose. I still think it's correct in part. But I don't currently view it in the same way and as broadly as I was raised which leaves me sorting out loss and never saved. Never saved is very clear at minimum in John6. I currently place continued emphasis on man's will, so my heavy leaning includes loss based upon objective readings of some Scriptures. As I look at the entirety of the Gospel Text and several decades in the Faith, I'm comfortable I'm in Him and that any personal effort is in line with the goals He's set for us.
Yes, you "follow" which IMO speaks of commands being prescriptive and descriptive. If you see a command or instruction in His Word that you objectively sense that you're not living up to, in reading you I doubt you'll ignore it and not be asking to become better in that regard, which is a prescriptive concept knowing how you become better. My view has always been to be responsive to His will, and responsible to be responsive, and apart from Him we can do nothing but remaining in union with Him we can be productive as He empowers and enables us to be.
No, again, and addressed in part above. But based in the above discussion of responsive and responsible I've never viewed salvation under grace as allowing for the sinful lifestyles I've seen being lived by professing Christians whose churches I know to teach a dumbed down version of faith and incorrect concept of works coupled with a security that results in grace and truth being abused.
NKJ Titus 1:16 They profess to know God, but in works they deny Him, being abominable, disobedient, and disqualified for every good work.
This says they are disgusting, and I believe and agree with it/Him.
Wrong again.
I have little to no reason to disbelieve you.
And I'm not your judge.