Not a Calvinist.
But, lets look at what you charge against him. To be correct, Jesus would not have uttered a word related to what John Calvin, and before him, Augustine, had said. They were teaching about Christ after all.
TULIP
T- Total Depravity -....the view that sinfulness pervades all areas of life and human existence. Through the Fall of Man, humanity is stained by sin in every aspect: heart, emotions, will, mind, and body. This means people cannot independently choose God. They cannot save themselves. God must intervene to save people.
Bible:John 6:44 No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him: and I will raise him up at the last day.
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1410. dunamai =
dunamai: to be able, to have power
Original Word: δύναμαι
Part of Speech: Verb
Transliteration: dunamai
Phonetic Spelling: (doo'-nam-ahee)
Definition: to be able, to have power
Usage: (a) I am powerful, have (the) power, (b) I am able, I can.
U - Stands for Unconditional Election
God chooses who will be saved. Because people are dead in their sins, they are unable to initiate a response to God. In eternity past God elected certain people to be saved. The saved people are called the Elect. God picks them based not on their personal character or merit, but out of his kindness and
sovereign will. It also means that election for salvation is not based on God's foreknowledge of who would come to faith in the future.(Because they can only come to faith ever by God's electing them to his salvation)
John 6:37(*Greek text link)
37All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out. (Proof of what some call OSAS. Because it is God that saves, therefore the saved of God can never be unsaved)
John 17:2 (*Greek text link)
2.just as you have given him authority over all humanity,
so that he may give eternal life to everyone you have given him.
Matthew 22:14 Many are called but few are chosen.
L - Stands for Limited Atonement
the view that Jesus Christ died only for the sins of the Elect,
John 10 (*Greek text)
11 “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.
Matthew 15 (*Greek text)
24.So he answered, “I was sent only to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.”
"Do not go into the way of the Gentiles, and do not enter a city of the Samaritans.
But go rather to the lost sheep of the house of Israel" (Matthew 10:5-6).
I - Stands for Irresistible Grace
Irresistible grace is the belief that God brings his Elect to salvation through an internal call, which they are powerless to resist. The Holy Spirit supplies grace to them until
John 10:27 (*Greek text)
27.My sheep listen to my voice, and I know them, and they follow me. 28 I give them eternal life, and they will never perish; no one will snatch them from my hand. 29 My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all,] and no one can snatch] them from my Father’s hand. 30 The Father and I are one.” they repent and are born again.
John 6:37
P - Stands for Perseverance of the Saints
John 10:27-28 (*Greek text)
John 8:31Then Jesus said to those Judeans who had believed him, “
If you continue to follow my teaching, you are really my disciples 32 and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”
1 John 2:19 (*Greek text)
They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us.
1 John 3:9 No one born of God makes a practice of sinning, for God's seed abides in him, and he cannot keep on sinning because he has been born of God.
The called and the chosen are one and the same.
1 Corinthians 1 (*Greek text)