God doesn't ask people to respond.
God CAUSES people to respond.
We don't cleanse and purify our own hearts, the Lord Jesus Christ cleanses and purifies us.
Everything that you think is a pre-requisite for being a Christian and being saved is a Gift from God and does not come from the will or imagination of man.
So you either have faith that it is God that causes you to respond and purifies you, therefore saving you and keeping you saved...
Or you have faith in self that it is you that makes all the right decisions and purifies your own heart, therefore saving yourself and keeping yourself saved...
Add as many words as you would like to these simple statements but the simplicity stands.
Grandpa, what does scripture say?
God asks us to ask and says He will respond
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Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
8 For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.
Matthew 7:7-8
9 So I say to you:
Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
10 For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.
Luke 11:9-10
Purify your hearts
8 Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and
purify your hearts, you double-minded.
9 Grieve, mourn and wail. Change your laughter to mourning and your joy to gloom.
10 Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.
James 4:8-10
God chooses and we respond.
We are not robots and we have a will. Exercising this will allows me to respond to you through
this forum.
The polarised gospel you are suggesting is not real.
We meet Jesus through His word. We are given the choice to follow or leave it alone.
The rich young man chose not to follow, Peter and the apostles responded and followed.
We know love because God loved us, and put love in our hearts.
The faith of God and self is a splitting things not how Jesus split things.