Kind of like those people who are looking for a reason to protest in Arkansas today? My friend is a guard at the State Capitol in Arkansas, and he told us about all the trouble they're having over there right now.
I've always been of the mindset that while it is both mine and my wife's special day, that she will more than likely be the one to really want something or to plan it out. The truth of the matter is that when I have that moment, where I look her in the eyes, and my heart turns to Jesus, to plea for the strength, obedience, and wisdom to lead her closer to Him, and to praise Him for the joy of stewarding one of His daughters.... There isn't anything else that I'm worried about... Is that wrong?
Yes, well, big decisions like a baby, or to take that job offer, or other "big" things are not everyday things, like how to squeeze toothpaste, lol. It may be little, but if you just stuff it down, all these little annoyances add up.

i'm one of the rare women who didn't start making wedding plans as a child lol if i get married, it will be a simple wedding. and since chuck taylors is my signature look, i'll be wearing a pair with my wedding dress lol
I've always been of the mindset that while it is both mine and my wife's special day, that she will more than likely be the one to really want something or to plan it out. The truth of the matter is that when I have that moment, where I look her in the eyes, and my heart turns to Jesus, to plea for the strength, obedience, and wisdom to lead her closer to Him, and to praise Him for the joy of stewarding one of His daughters.... There isn't anything else that I'm worried about... Is that wrong?
Something intimate, preferably on the beach at sunset, something that included my children (and theirs if they had any), and something that feels more like a family gathering than a stuffy formal reception. I'm okay with music so folks can dance if they so choose. To me, a wedding should be more about God, the couple, and those that are closest to them. I don't need my cousins friends, their moms, and so on and so forth.
Of course this requires me to actually be romantically linked to someone.