Your man looking at gorgeous women

[Snackersmom]

Ok I give up.

Oh no ya don't, come back here young man we gotta figgr this out!!!

 

[Lynx]

Oh no ya don't, come back here young man we gotta figgr this out!!!

Don't wanna.
Don't gotta.
You can't make me.
You're not my boss!

 

[LifelongLearner]

Think it's natural for men and women to appreciate fine looking people, it's playing away that is the problem. I also think a moment or two of jealousy, an elbow in the ribs etc are natural too, if your hubby or wife are being too appreciative.

People do experience jealous feelings to different degrees, however, i do think it's important to be sure it isn't jealousy that's really the problem.

 

[NotMakingThisUp]

I was in a relationship where this was a problem...a problem in that it bothered me. I think it was more due to the way he did it. I remember that in the beginning stages of the relationship when we were doing things together, he'd look at women and comment to me about them. One woman he really was going on about how gorgeous she was. Meanwhile, I was too twitterpated to even realize that there were other men besides him on Earth lol. Jokes aside, I think I felt as Lynx described better in post #18. I felt what I had was enough and didn't even have a slight pull to have a look elsewhere.
In this particular relationship, I was left having the same feelings seoulsearch and Lynx describe. As time went on, I realized that this just wasn't the sort of relationship I wanted to be in. I'd rather be content and alone while I "ogle" birds and wildlife lol.

I would also like to add that not only can this be disrespectful to the one you're with, but also to the one you're looking at. I'd be uncomfortable if someone (especially if they were in a relationship) was obviously ogling me and making comments about how hot I am or whistling or singing. I think maturity is attractive. Making others uncomfortable is not.

Consider that all your focus on a him looking about distracted your noticing so many other ‘hims’ looking abou you.
Maybe start the ‘Who Looks at Me” thread.?
-Not making this up

 

[Karlon]

Consider that all your focus on a him looking about distracted your noticing so many other ‘hims’ looking abou you.
Maybe start the ‘Who Looks at Me” thread.?
-Not making this up

datzphunnneee!: "who looks at me".. only in the past 20 years have girls been looking at me. before that, it took forever for me to find a g.f. in my teens thru my 40's girls didn't notice me or my friends. we must have been the ugly bunch!

 

[Mordy]

So, this was a big no for me when I was younger.

Today, pushing 50, it’s not a problem at all. I’m a widow, a single and all that, but if I were going steady with someone and he was looking at beautiful women I would in fact appreciate that.

Any takes?

"curiouser and curiouser" was indeed coined by Lewis Carroll in 1865...

 

[Mwestton]

So, this was a big no for me when I was younger.

Today, pushing 50, it’s not a problem at all. I’m a widow, a single and all that, but if I were going steady with someone and he was looking at beautiful women I would in fact appreciate that.

Any takes?

When I truly fell in love,my first wife my co workers would mock me cause I wouldn't and just couldn't look at another woman. I knew what I had( the true love for only one) and I took everything they said lightly. If your sing and a guy looks and you appreciate it then ya I see how it would be a compliment..and on the cool ,I look at your picture briefly when I'm scrolling on this site. There's my 2 cents. Peace be with you.