If men would be the husband that God requires them to be then women would be the wife that God wants them to be. Too many men are selfish, lazy, complacent and take their wives for granted. Too many women try to find in a husband what only Jesus can supply.
I took care of a friend when she came out of hospital. She had great needs still. She had applied for some home help, but there was a problem and it took 3 weeks to arrive. None of the tasks were hard, but they were relentless. It took me a week to find time to put the shopping away.
Women with kids know exactly what I'm talking about. Men need to be more sensitive. Take the children to the park just to give your wife a break. It won't kill you to wash dishes and vacuum. Do the heavier stuff like make the bed. Don't make a big deal of helping either.