No, she is right. There is usually a sin that keeps a person from God's blessings, whether it be an addiction or a lifestyle.
I can tell you have never received the holy spirit, so going to church would be like picking up sticks.
Jesus dying on the cross for your sins is the most expensive present that has been given to you for free, but instead, you spend that gift in a day, and then for eternity, you're thirsty and tortured.
What Christians have, you cannot buy inner peace, joy and love. It's a spring that never dries up. Even when we have come from terrible situations or are in terrible situations, we are happy. God gives us this through his son, Jesus Christ.
But because you have chosen the devil as your spiritual father, you will experience dryness. It's probably already apparent. You don't get genuine emotions. you never want to Be alone because it causes you to realize the emptiness within.
Planet, we all have had times where we, too, were foolish in rejecting God but jesus was sent for you he was sent for the sinner, not the righteous. Sin has caused this generation to heart to be hard, but God says, "A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh."