Acts 6:2 Then the twelve called the multitude of the disciples unto them, and said, It is not reason that we should leave the word of God, and serve tables.
Consider this, the first martyr is not one of the twelve who are speaking the word of God. It is one of the guys who is serving tables.
This illustrates why I think the debate over the "greatest football player of all time" is so stupid. There is no single person who would have been anything were it not for the team and the coaches. Emmit Smith said this, he considers Barry Sanders the best running back despite Emmit having all the records. He said 'if Barry had the offensive line that I had then he would have had all the records'. Would Jerry Rice have had as many receptions if Joe Montana and Steve Young weren't the quarterbacks throwing him the ball? As great as Tom Brady was, how good would he have been without his teammates? One Super Bowl was won by the kicker, another was won by a "rookie" defensive secondary. Without those two victories he is 5/10 and that is very different from 7/10. Many would reasonably argue that Montana was better.
Think about Samson. We would all think he was a "superstar" able to kill thousands of Philistines himself. But imagine if on his team he had someone who could have seen through Delilah and warned him about her? Everyone finds some things that are easy to them that are impossible to others. Samson was blind when it comes to deceitful, manipulative women. But to those who can see through them that is easy. Meanwhile fighting thousands of Philistines with nothing but the bones of a dead donkey is impossible for many of us, but for Samson that is easy.
The Body has many members, we need every one of them, and it was of God that the first martyr would be someone serving tables, and not one of the twelve speaking the word of God.
Acts 6:3 Wherefore, brethren, look ye out among you seven men of honest report, full of the Holy Ghost and wisdom, whom we may appoint over this business. 4 But we will give ourselves continually to prayer, and to the ministry of the word.
This is an excellent example to us. At this time what the church needed desperately was for the 12 to give themselves continually to prayer and the ministry of the word. Yes, there was a need for taking care of the increase among the Grecians, but that need does not supersede the other need. We are often tempted every time there is a need in the church to try and take care of it ourselves, but the reality is the first thing we should do is to pray. Seek the Lord's will and the twelve, after doing that, saw that the Lord's will was for them to focus on prayer and the ministry of the word. Yes, there was a need, but that doesn't mean the twelve need to do everything, find seven more men who can rise up to shoulder the burden.
First and foremost you need someone of honest report, let's not forget Judas, and let's not forget Ananias and Sapphira. Second, they need to be full of the Holy Spirit. When you get into ministry it is essential that you are full of the Holy Spirit, like the tire on a car. If you are flat you will be no use to anyone. And you need someone with wisdom. I have seen many genuine believers who are well meaning, but not wise. Because of that lack of wisdom they take twice as long to do a job as others.
A good example of this wisdom is
The "shoot" (or curved chute/race) that helps guide cattle humanely to slaughter was significantly designed and popularized by Dr. Temple Grandin, an animal behavior scientist who developed systems based on animal psychology, using curved chutes and solid walls to reduce stress and fear by preventing visual distractions. This made it much more efficient to slaughter cattle and at the same time much more humane. Many of us would not have the wisdom to realize that the chute the cows walk up during the process of being slaughtered could be made in such a way as to make this much less stressful for the cows and thus made the process easier, faster and more efficient.