You got it wrong. The Spirit comes to dwell in a person without the laying on of the apostle's hands according to Acts 2:38, upon baptism; we all ger the gift of the Spirit itself, but not gifts. So it's not as you've indicated but the laying on of the apostle's hands were in fact associated with the Holy Ghost but rather to make the Spirit be manifested, the so-called gifts being manifested. Isn't this also confirmed by 2 Tim 1:6? The interlinear says "kindle anew the gift if God which is in you", and the kjv reads "stir up the gift of God which is in thee".
And once again, why did the apostles lay their hands on the 7 chosen including Steven in Acts 6? To give them the power to do miracles, speak in tongues, etc,. Verse 8 goes on to say Stephen did great wonders and miracles afterwards.
And 1 Cor 13:8 is specifically about the ceasing of the gifts.
8Charity never faileth: but whether
there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether
there be tongues, they shall cease; whether
there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.
And it goes on to say in verse 10
10But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.
It doesn't say when Jesus returns. I ask you as I've asked others, what is "that which is perfect"? What does this mean? Is this what you think refers to Jesus?