A "modern woman" is a gigantic turn off, screams high maintenance and baggage.
A woman who is constantly on their phone, nothing is worse than going on a date like bowling, and they are on their phone 95% of the time.
Modern dates go as follows.
You show up to the place, they are all happy and gitty, they take selfies and force you to take selfies, acting like they are having the best time ever. Then the rest of the time is spent sending those pictures to everyone or trying to see if others are having "more fun" than they are.
And every time the date is over they say "I had such a fun time, this was a blast" and they text you wanting to know when the next date will be.