I basically agree with all you said here.
However, how does any of this have anything to do with your accusation that Adam was lazy?
My kids blame each other all the time for random, stupid things but that doesn't equate to laziness. Their sin nature doesn't mean they have no work ethic. I imagine it was the same with Adam. He blamed Eve but still worked. Eve blamed the serpent, she still worked. Unless you believe that she was lazy, too, because she blamed an animal for her sin?
na you dont really get my meaning it seemed like from what happened Adam was blaming God for Eve because he wasnt picking any fruit himself. Maybe he was busy naming animals or something, but it does seem he just wasnt taking any responsibility for it at all. Eve picked it and she ate and gave to him, it wasnt like he picked it, because, maybe he just let Eve pick all the fruit for both of them, instead of actually picking then fruit together.
If he was close by and didnt even say or do anything to stop Eve, that just makes it worse on his part. Because he could have fended of the serpent, as the sepernet couldnt argue with another witness. Did God really say? asked the serpent...and Eve got doubtful, why didnt she turn to Adam and why didnt Adam then say actually God DID say it was poisonous!
also why, when God asked adam did you eat it, why didnt Adam say he was deceived by the serpent same as Eve? No, instead he blamed God for giving him Eve!
a responsible person would have just said Im sorry I ate it I knew it was wrong we dont want to die! I couldnt stop Eve from eating it. Or I wasnt there when the serpent told Eve those lies, and unfortunatley she ate it and so did I. what can I do?!
If he was truly innocent he would have said I didnt actually know that what I ate was the forbidden fruit, but actually it seems Adam DID know beforehand.
so not taking responsibilty for eating the fruit equals laziness in my view. It was as if Adam was saying Eve was feeding him, like a baby.
like how drunks say they cant stop drinking, yet, they are the ones that go and buy the drinks. Or they go to parties where drinks are offered, and then cant seem to say no. when they could have just not drunk or not gone.