Tragic loss

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Dude653

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Hey everyone.
Last week I lost my son when he was killed in a motorcycle accident
He would have been 27 in November
I know I tend to butt heads with people on here on pretty much everything but I could really use all of your support right now.
 

Encouragement

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Hey everyone.
Last week I lost my son when he was killed in a motorcycle accident
He would have been 27 in November
I know I tend to butt heads with people on here on pretty much everything but I could really use all of your support right now.
Hi Dude653 i am so very very sorry to hear this has happened.Such a terrible tragedy for you have to faceat such a time.It is great that you have found this forum and of course I will pray for you.I can't even begin to imagine how you and others must be feeling right now..😔😔😔
So young as well with his birthday coming up in shortly.If only we could go back in time to the day before and different choices were made he would still be around.May God given you the strength to get through each moment of each day.I am touch by what's happened...😢
 

Roughsoul1991

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Hey everyone.
Last week I lost my son when he was killed in a motorcycle accident
He would have been 27 in November
I know I tend to butt heads with people on here on pretty much everything but I could really use all of your support right now.
Praying for y'all. So sorry for your loss, he wasn't much younger than me. Not much can be said to comfort in these type of moments. Only the love of others and fall into God's arms as He is a comforts those in grief. Let go in Him and let thet be where your emotions are free to feel and free to heal.
 

PennEd

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Apr 22, 2013
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#4
Hey everyone.
Last week I lost my son when he was killed in a motorcycle accident
He would have been 27 in November
I know I tend to butt heads with people on here on pretty much everything but I could really use all of your support right now.
That is awful! I am so terribly sorry! May God comfort you and your family.
Be blessed.
 
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EleventhHour

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#5
Hey everyone.
Last week I lost my son when he was killed in a motorcycle accident
He would have been 27 in November
I know I tend to butt heads with people on here on pretty much everything but I could really use all of your support right now.
Prayers lifted!
 

Dino246

Senior Member
Jun 30, 2015
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#6
Hey everyone.
Last week I lost my son when he was killed in a motorcycle accident
He would have been 27 in November
I know I tend to butt heads with people on here on pretty much everything but I could really use all of your support right now.
So sorry this happened. I'll be praying for you.
 

laughingheart

Senior Member
Sep 21, 2016
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#7
Hey everyone.
Last week I lost my son when he was killed in a motorcycle accident
He would have been 27 in November
I know I tend to butt heads with people on here on pretty much everything but I could really use all of your support right now.
I am so very sad for you. There are no words for this sort of pain. I ask God to shelter you under his wing. Please forgive people for the things that they may say while trying to comfort you. We mean well but we are floundering. I am so sorry.
 

Lighthearted

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Oct 17, 2016
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#8
Hey everyone.
Last week I lost my son when he was killed in a motorcycle accident
He would have been 27 in November
I know I tend to butt heads with people on here on pretty much everything but I could really use all of your support right now.
I pray you and your family will feel the Lord's presence and comfort around you in a mighty way.
 

Solemateleft

Honor, Courage, Commitment
Jun 25, 2017
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Hey everyone.
Last week I lost my son when he was killed in a motorcycle accident
He would have been 27 in November
I know I tend to butt heads with people on here on pretty much everything but I could really use all of your support right now.
Dude, that is tragic news! My heart breaks for you! My prayers are with you and your son. May our Lord bless both of you with HIS grace and mercy. God Bless
 

SoulWeaver

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Oct 25, 2014
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#10
Hey everyone.
Last week I lost my son when he was killed in a motorcycle accident
He would have been 27 in November
I know I tend to butt heads with people on here on pretty much everything but I could really use all of your support right now.
Oh man, that's terrible! I'm so sorry!
Don't worry about "butting heads" Dude, I am sad that you were even concerned and felt the need to bring it up...! in the end of the day we're all people... as for the holders of grudges, it will not go well for them with Christ...
A good reminder that we often have no idea what's the person on the other side, that we are engaging, currently going through. This forum could really use a bit more kindness...
Asking the Holy Spirit to intercede on your behalf, because I'm really at loss for words. What shall one say to comfort a grieving parent? I'm asking God to give you some peace and relief in your distress I wish I could do more. :cry:
 

Dude653

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Mar 19, 2011
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He had just gotten out of the Marines and was going to college on the GI Bill
I've been reading comments from some of his friends and fellow Marines and they all speak very highly of him
He was an amazing young man who touched a lot of people's lives
 

bojack

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Dec 16, 2019
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I'm so sorry for your and your families loss .. May our Lord Jesus grant you grace and peace , In Jesus name I pray ..
 

Solemateleft

Honor, Courage, Commitment
Jun 25, 2017
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Brother Dude, I'm sitting here fighting back tears and wanted to share the Marines Hymn with you, and I pray you have our are able to aquire a framed copy for your self. Once a Marine always a Marine. I pray the last verse might help you find some peace.
Semper Fidelis to you my brother as you will always be a Marine dad.
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Billyd

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May 8, 2014
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We lost our son in a bicycle accident over 25 years ago. He was 28. We feel your pain. Let God guide you and your family through the difficult days ahead. You and your family are in our prayers.
 

Magenta

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Jul 3, 2015
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Dude. I am so sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your son :cry::cry::cry:



 

Lanolin

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Dec 15, 2018
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That's terrible Dude am so sorry
I cant imagine how overwhelming it is to lose a son. Though God knows as Mary was the same. Do whatever you need to do..sending prayers of comfort

when lives are short it seems God gives them extra opportunities to touch people just by who they are and not always by what they accomplish..He has a greater purpose in this though its so hard to go on, let Him carry you through the valley
 

Bingo

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Feb 9, 2019
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"Losing a loved one unexpectedly is a hard one to accept. I lost my only brother
few years ago, I am thankful of God's grace that got me through...Praise God.
We never know how important it is to rely on God's strength in uncertain times."
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lenna

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this is heartbreaking and you have my deepest condolences. I cannot imagine such loss. I have prayed for you, for strength and the peace that only God can give to us in the midst of our worst days and losses and I will continue to pray that you might be comforted.