Thoughts on dating older guys..

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I have had a crush on a guy for 15 and a half months..crazyyy long. I know he likes me back, he's told me, but we've never really done anything about it. I'm 13, he just turned 15 this month (May 3rd to be exact) and I was thinking of taking the next step in our relationship. He is very religious and has taught me so much about God. I completely trust him and I was just wondering what everyone else thinks about this situation..?
 
hahahah that was so sweet to read......wow 15 as an older guy.....I must be ancient ;)
 
hahaha....i thought it's a guy in his 20s!

my personal thoughts? I'll say just go with the flow.... you're both very young and dating shouldn't be something of huge concern.

Have fun with your teen years...get closer to God, spend time with your family and friends and just be HAPPY!
 
Thanks guys! Next time I talk to him, I'll talk to him about a real more than friends relationship. And missy, you are SO not ancient, I'm just an infant:P
 
LOL If Missy is ancient, then am I PREHISTORIC[
As long as you both like each other and are working together to get closer to God, then good for you.

I wish you both Many Blessings
 
xD I read the thread title and figured that he was twenty or something... and plus, you're too darn young to be dating anyways! xD 13 is barely a teenager.... is 15 really that old?

um, anyways... I think you're too young, actually. Both of you... you're so young... xD say a sixteen year old girl who's found her soul mate already. xD
 
Sooo there once was this girl that I liked, and she was a lot younger than me. Like, I was 18 and she was um...15. Is it wrong? I dont think so. But trust me when I say that it is difficult in a lot of ways if you do decide to be together. I eventually dated her, and we did for 5 and a half months. You sound like kinda the same as our situation for the most part. I was really pouring into her and teaching her about God and we both had a lot of trust. But situations tend to rise that you dont expect. I would say maybe wait and DEFINATELY pray about it! I'll be prayin for you too. God Bless yall and have an amazinggg weekend!
 
Christian boys are great because they're sensitive and very nice, like me for instance! ^^
I reckon that you should go out with him, so long as you are thoughtful of the situation, and no lustful thoughts! ;)

If you wish to further discuss this topic with me, feel free to send me a message. =]
 
You are much to young to be thinking about dating.You need to find out who you are yet.If you concentrate on this boy you are more likely to try to be what you think he wants,not who you really are.You need to talk to an adult you can trust and let them know what is happening so they can guide you through this.I know it is hard to know who you can trust,but God will show you.Lean on the Lord,he you can trust before all others.
 
BeauBLESSED said:
Christian boys are great because they're sensitive and very nice, like me for instance! ^^
I reckon that you should go out with him, so long as you are thoughtful of the situation, and no lustful thoughts! ;)

If you wish to further discuss this topic with me, feel free to send me a message. =]
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i think i may have just thrown up!
 
You are 13, just barely turned into your Teen years. You're young. You're probably in middle school. I'd say that dating can be a big responsibility sometimes and in my opinion, I'd say focus on school, your books, reading. You don't need to be worrying about boys at such a young age. When the time comes, it will happen. To the guy who said no lustful thoughts...she is 13, it will not be impossible and probably won't be easy either! Do what you want but I think you're way too young for this!
 
May I suggest, get busy in church. Become a busy, blessed church leader. You will find the one Christ made for you.
 
Bellefemmebeni said:
You are 13, just barely turned into your Teen years. You're young. You're probably in middle school. I'd say that dating can be a big responsibility sometimes and in my opinion, I'd say focus on school, your books, reading. You don't need to be worrying about boys at such a young age. When the time comes, it will happen. To the guy who said no lustful thoughts...she is 13, it will not be impossible and probably won't be easy either! Do what you want but I think you're way too young for this!
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No, she's not 13 years old. She's like 20 - now. This thread is ancient.
 
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