I just saw this and I LOVE it. When we begin to have the mind and heart of Jesus, we should look for someone who also has the mind and heart of Jesus, because this sort of love between two believers with the mind and heart of Jesus is unbreakable. My grandparents on my mom's side were such a great example of that. They didn't fight like cats and dogs in front of their kids, they would pray together...they had the kind of love that when you saw them in the store or at a restaurant, their love for Jesus and each other almost physically shined off of them. They spoke with grace and kindness, and if they were angry towards one another, they resolved it before the night was over. Even though they experienced many heartbreaks before they went to be with the Lord, they were the most joyful people you'd ever meet, and it was downright contagious.
And THAT is the kind of love I hope to have someday.