God is not the enemy, Evil selfishness is
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Phi; 3:1-4
3 Finally, my brethren, rejoice in the Lord. To write the same things to you, to me indeed is not grievous, but for you it is safe. 2 Beware of dogs, beware of evil workers, beware of the concision. 3 For we are the circumcision, which worship God in the spirit, and rejoice in Christ Jesus, and have no confidence in the flesh. 4 Though I might also have confidence in the flesh. If any other man thinketh that he hath whereof he might trust in the flesh, I more:
God desires and wants what is best for us all
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Jeremiah 29:11
11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the Lord, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
therefore understand, accept when you are told no. There is a righteous reason for it from God for us all
Those that do not get what they ask for, might be because they only want it to spend it on their own pleasures, Then when they do get get it, they do it on their own and act righteous in it. Ask God to reveal to you Matthew 10:16-20