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CEF said:
I cannot stand people that have a problem with you, but go behind your back and tell somebody else that they have a problem with it. It takes a real friend to go and talk things out if you feel uncomfortable with me messaging you about God just say something to me. I promise I would rather you tell me then go tell somebody else behind my back that is so not Godly.
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Sorry to tell you this CEF ... but that is exactly what I told him myself on your behalf...

Sadly we have to be very careful who we confide in ...
 
CEF said:
I cannot stand people that have a problem with you, but go behind your back and tell somebody else that they have a problem with it. It takes a real friend to go and talk things out if you feel uncomfortable with me messaging you about God just say something to me. I promise I would rather you tell me then go tell somebody else behind my back that is so not Godly.
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You message person A. Person A is unsure how to respond for whatever reason, and consults person B. Person B then tells you that person A has a problem with you? Lady Violet Granthan made an astute observation in Downton Abbey, I cannot remember it word for word but shall attempt to convey the gist of it: "Never take sides, because no matter what you think you know, one is never in possession of all the facts."

I am sorry you feel peeved and probably very hurt about this.
 
Sadly it was made clear in the PM that he had indeed sent the same message to several.
 
This makes me really really mad. I am only on here to grow closer to God and to learn more about God, not to cause grief and headache. It never fails, sorry but I am taking this personally and have. He makes me it seem like I did something unlawful jeez.
 
CEF said:
I cannot stand people that have a problem with you, but go behind your back and tell somebody else that they have a problem with it. It takes a real friend to go and talk things out if you feel uncomfortable with me messaging you about God just say something to me. I promise I would rather you tell me then go tell somebody else behind my back that is so not Godly.
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If you're talking about who I think you are, he wasn't uncomfortable with talking to you about God. He just felt it was inappropriate for him to pm with a 19 year old girl, when he's a 30-something year old man.. I'm sure he would be more than happy to talk to you about God out in the open forums. :)
 
CEF said:
This makes me really really mad. I am only on here to grow closer to God and to learn more about God, not to cause grief and headache. It never fails, sorry but I am taking this personally and have. He makes me it seem like I did something unlawful jeez.
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Calm down. You haven't done anything wrong here. Just refrain from pm'ing the men and you'll be fine. You can learn about God just as well from us ladies, as you can from the men.
 
blue_ladybug said:
If you're talking about who I think you are, he wasn't uncomfortable with talking to you about God. He just felt it was inappropriate for him to pm with a 19 year old girl, when he's a 30-something year old man.. I'm sure he would be more than happy to talk to you about God out in the open forums. :)
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I don't know what's going on.
 
JesusLives said:
Possibly their I'm Right You're Wrong stance is challenged? I don't get it either since we are suppose to be like Jesus....Any Who...

Welcome to the Speak Your Mind thread where there is usually peace and tranquility, we also serve cookies here so enjoy and come and speak often....

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I love cookies! ;)
 
Some people aren't acting like men.
-Thing I have observed in my life about men really pursuing the whole leadership thing.
(Not talking about anything on this thread but speaking of this topic in general because it has been on my mind lately).
 
Good morning everyone. :)

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blue_ladybug said:
If you're talking about who I think you are, he wasn't uncomfortable with talking to you about God. He just felt it was inappropriate for him to pm with a 19 year old girl, when he's a 30-something year old man.. I'm sure he would be more than happy to talk to you about God out in the open forums. :)
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Thanks, Blue.
 
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