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oldhermit said:
Nah, we were just having fun roasting a troll for lunch.
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roxxyroller said:
Ya know folks, I really feel bad complaining about him all of the time cuz even though he has a drinking problem and he's a jerk most of the time when he drinks ... he honestly IS an awesome guy. He would go ballistic if he knew I was writing this about him. He treats me EXCELLENT when he is not drinking, and when sober, we get along so great. He is off now until Tuesday. Monday is our 10th Anniversary. I wish he would quit his drinking soooooo bad.

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He may be an awesome guy but he drinks everyday. He is an alcoholic and he may never stop drinking. How much longer do you want to live the way that you do? I am very sad for your situation. One day you must make a decision. I hope that it's not too late.
 
roxxyroller said:
Thanks love, you are so sweet! Glad that I met all of you! xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo ~~ Thanks for the kind rep as well, I tried to get ya back but it told me I must spread the love around to others before I am able to rep you again! Boo ... no fair!
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Don't ever be afraid to speak of what you are going through. (I did that for far to long and that's not good either) You have friends that love you and who will pray for you and perhaps others that have been there can give you insight that help you through it. :)

They set it up that way for a reason and if remember it was for a pretty sound,but I forgot what the reason was. Thank you :)
 
tourist said:
He may be an awesome guy but he drinks everyday. He is an alcoholic and he may never stop drinking. How much longer do you want to live the way that you do? I am very sad for your situation. One day you must make a decision. I hope that it's not too late.
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Honestly I don't want to live this way ... but I read that when you are married you are supposed to stick it out and try and help him (or her).
 
tourist said:
He may be an awesome guy but he drinks everyday. He is an alcoholic and he may never stop drinking. How much longer do you want to live the way that you do? I am very sad for your situation. One day you must make a decision. I hope that it's not too late.
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Am I right?? I don't know .. I am so confused. I read the following:


Question: "What should a Christian do if he or she is married to an unbeliever?"

Answer: Being married to an unbeliever can be one of the most difficult challenges in a Christian's life. Marriage is a sacred covenant that joins two people together in one flesh (Matthew 19:5). It can be very difficult for a believer and an unbeliever to live in peaceful harmony (2 Corinthians 6:14-15). If one partner becomes a Christian after the marriage, the inherent struggles of living under two different authorities quickly become apparent.

Often Christians in this situation will look for a way out of the marriage, convinced that this is the only way to truly bring honor to God. His Word, however, says the contrary. It is very important not only to be content in our situation, but also to look for ways to bring glory to Him out of our challenging circumstances (1 Corinthians 7:17). The Bible specifically addresses those who are married to unbelievers in 1 Corinthians 7:12-14: “…If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband…”

Christians married to unbelievers will need to pray for the power of the Holy Spirit to enable them to profess Christ and live in the light of God's presence (1 John 1:7). They should seek God's transforming power to change their hearts and produce the fruit of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). A Christian wife is obligated to have a submissive heart, even toward her unbelieving husband (1 Peter 3:1), and she will need to remain close to God and rely on His grace to enable her to do so.

Christians are not meant to live solitary lives; they need to find support from outside sources such as the church and Bible study groups. Being married to an unbeliever does not alter the sacredness of the relationship, so it should be the priority of every Christian to pray for his or her spouse and set a good example, allowing Christ's light to shine brightly (Philippians 2:14). May the truth found in 1 Peter 3:1—that an unbelieving spouse is “won over”—be the hope and goal of every Christian who is married to an unbeliever.
 
I kid you not! Im serious...a little boy behind me said Daddy whats going to happen? Dad says...The aliens are coming Timmy! Teehee..but its ok...they give you candy!...I mean really? What dad tells there four year old that? I need Violet we gotta troll on the river scaring his boy...what a goober. Home soon lol I see this every year...wee..lol
 
roxxyroller said:
Honestly I don't want to live this way ... but I read that when you are married you are supposed to stick it out and try and help him (or her).
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I don't believe that God wants or expects any one to stay in a chronic abusive relationship. This is not a matter of simply your husband not believing in God but otherwise is a kind and decent person. I am sure that you are terribly conflicted but you know that this has been going on for a long time. If it is any comfort to you at all I will say a prayer for your situation. I will also pray that God provides a certain measure of clarity of thought for you to know what the right thing to do is.
 
cmarieh said:
What I mean is that you take off all the goodies on the pizza, like the pepperoni, sausage, mushrooms and eat them separately, that sort of thing.
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I separate the M&M colors and eat the same color together....OCD probably.....but I separate the colors to match...sometimes make pictures, flowers etc........I know I'm strange and I have papers to prove I'm crazy too....lol
 
JesusLives said:
I separate the M&M colors and eat the same color together....OCD probably.....but I separate the colors to match...sometimes make pictures, flowers etc........I know I'm strange and I have papers to prove I'm crazy too....lol
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She just spelled out 'I love you' in M&M's to me. I will spell out a message for her now. For this I will need a lot of red ones.
 
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