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When you like a girl, do you fall in love with her personality or is it sex based?
When I was younger, it was mostly physical attraction. I've since learned (the hard way) to look past the physical attraction and notice her personality instead.
Do you think about the girl you like during the day? Do you want to know her thoughts?
Yes and yes!
Do you like her as a person or is it just a physical thing? (Not sure if men have these soft feelings as well.)
I have to like her as a person. I will lose interest quickly if there's something about her personality that i don't like. It doesn't matter how physically attractive she is. Of course that wasn't always the case, but I'm glad I'm not so enamored by physical attraction anymore.
When I was younger, it was mostly physical attraction. I've since learned (the hard way) to look past the physical attraction and notice her personality instead.
Do you think about the girl you like during the day? Do you want to know her thoughts?
Yes and yes!
Do you like her as a person or is it just a physical thing? (Not sure if men have these soft feelings as well.)
I have to like her as a person. I will lose interest quickly if there's something about her personality that i don't like. It doesn't matter how physically attractive she is. Of course that wasn't always the case, but I'm glad I'm not so enamored by physical attraction anymore.
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Thanks. 
But to be honest, I'm not very high up on the godly man scale. Maybe even on the low side.
But to be honest, I'm not very high up on the godly man scale. Maybe even on the low side.
But if by a godly man we mean someone who consistently shows the same kindness, compassion, and concern for others that Jesus did; I think you're selling yourself short and much higher on the scale than you realize.
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I can only talk from personal experience.. I may be physically attracted to a woman but i don't love her until i get to know them as a person.. I love the person.. It is rare in my life i can count on one had the woman who i have loved to the extent where i could of married them.. Maybe 3 woman.. There have been more that i have loved like a Sister.. A good number of Sisters in Christ i have has sister type love for..
And this may sound strange but i have had a few Daughter type relationships with young girls online.. The most tragic relationship i have ever had was with a girl online... Loved her to the max ( as a daughter ) but it ended badly.. Such is life in this fallen world..
So yeah Physical looks might get you noticed. Which can be an advantage for a woman. But it does not get you loved..
Physically stunning girls often end up attracting users and they get burnt..
And this may sound strange but i have had a few Daughter type relationships with young girls online.. The most tragic relationship i have ever had was with a girl online... Loved her to the max ( as a daughter ) but it ended badly.. Such is life in this fallen world..
So yeah Physical looks might get you noticed. Which can be an advantage for a woman. But it does not get you loved..
Physically stunning girls often end up attracting users and they get burnt..
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Thanks. But to be honest, I'm not very high up on the godly man scale. Maybe even on the low side.
But to be honest, I'm not very high up on the godly man scale. Maybe even on the low side.
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That's actually something I've been interested in knowing for many years. And what I've learned from various sources is that in general, men are initially attracted by a woman's outer beauty. Some men are so taken by a woman's physical attractiveness that they become very attached and completely enchanted by her from the start. I've been there many times myself. Not all men are like that of course.
Women on the other hand, again based on various sources that I've gathered over the years, generally are attracted at first by a man's personality. Mainly his level of confidence or sense of humor. Sometimes it's his eyes.
Women on the other hand, again based on various sources that I've gathered over the years, generally are attracted at first by a man's personality. Mainly his level of confidence or sense of humor. Sometimes it's his eyes.
