Seeing My Dad

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Ok so my Mum has finally given my brother permission for him to take me to go see our Dad whos in jail so yea thats gonna be happening in the next few weeks. Im not entirely sure when. And hes getting out soon so if it goes well then hopefully he'll be able to be a part of our lives again. My Mums not too happy about it and my brothers a bit reluctuant towards it but like I was 5 when he went to jail and my brother was 10 so obviosuly I was a lot more sheltered from what was going on then they were. The only bad memory I have from back then was when my Dad was being arrested and the care home we were in for a while so for me my Dad was never a bad person and I dont want to move on without at least trying to get that relationship back with him. My mum said that he has tried to get in contact with me and my brother for years but shes never let him. But omg I so want this to work out and I am so scared that hes not going to like me it sort of was my fault hes there and I dont want him to hate me and Ive changed quite a lot since I was 5 so idk and I dont know how he'll react to me being gay and then it will break my heart if i go there just for him to reject me or if I dont like him but Im still gonna know because itll hurt even more if I dont try. Its like Ive been waiting nearly 10 years for this and now I have no idea whats going to happen if it works out or if it doesnt work out. Sorry I didnt really think this post through so it probably seems a bit rambled.
 
I have to say this. It's blunt but that's how I am sometimes.. You are NOT gay. You had sex with a girl awhile ago, so obviously you are not gay. You may be attracted to guys, but that's about it. Gay people do NOT have sex with the opposite gender, unless they truly ARE gay.. now that being said, it's understandable that you're scared/nervous/excited to see your dad. :) Just take it one day at a time and see what happens. Develop a relationship first, before you go and bonk him on the head with the fact that you're attracted to guys.
 
blue_ladybug said:
I have to say this. It's blunt but that's how I am sometimes.. You are NOT gay. You had sex with a girl awhile ago, so obviously you are not gay. You may be attracted to guys, but that's about it. Gay people do NOT have sex with the opposite gender, unless they truly ARE gay.. now that being said, it's understandable that you're scared/nervous/excited to see your dad. :) Just take it one day at a time and see what happens. Develop a relationship first, before you go and bonk him on the head with the fact that you're attracted to guys.
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I say im gay because its simplier to explain but im homoflexible but its not really important here. I guess youre right I should wait and get to know him before I do anything drastic though
 
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