The interpretation of Matthew 22:14 and its context—the Parable of the Wedding Banquet—does indeed touch upon themes of invitation, rejection, and the inclusion of a broader audience into the kingdom of God. This parable, as presented by Jesus, can be understood within the framework of God's dealings with Israel and the extension of His kingdom to the Gentiles, aligning with the statement provided. However, to frame it solely as not about God's universal love may overlook the broader biblical narrative of God's redemptive plan for all humanity.
In the parable (Matthew 22:1-14), a king invites guests to his son's wedding feast, but those invited (representing Israel) refuse to come. Some even mistreat and kill the messengers (prophets sent to Israel). In response, the king invites others (symbolizing the Gentiles) from the highways to fill the wedding hall. The parable concludes with the statement, "For many are called, but few are chosen," highlighting the idea that while the invitation to the kingdom of God extends widely, the response and acceptance of that invitation determine inclusion in the feast—symbolic of the kingdom of God.
This parable reflects historical realities: Israel's leaders often rejected God's prophets and ultimately His Son, Jesus Christ. The inclusion of "those in the highways and byways" does illustrate the expansion of God's invitation to the Gentiles, a theme that unfolds in the New Testament, especially in the book of Acts and Paul's letters. God's covenant with Israel, according to the New Testament, is fulfilled in Christ, who inaugurates the New Covenant through His death and resurrection, opening the way for all people, Jew and Gentile alike, to come to God.
However, this does not negate the theme of God's universal love. The opening of the kingdom to the Gentiles is a demonstration of God's love extending beyond the boundaries of Israel to embrace all nations. John 3:16, Ephesians 2:11-22, and Galatians 3:28, among other passages, underscore the inclusive nature of God's love and the universal scope of the gospel. The invitation to the wedding feast is an act of grace, offered to all, reflecting God's desire for a relationship with humanity.
In summary, while the statement about the parable portending the change in covenants and representing the shift from Israel to including the Gentiles is supported by biblical scholarship, it is also essential to recognize that this narrative is part of the larger biblical message of God's redemptive love for the whole world. The parable underscores both God's judgment on unbelief and His gracious invitation to salvation—a salvation that is made available to all through faith in Christ.