Prayer for Family Abuse

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Hello,

I am requesting prayer that my family would not abuse me anymore. They scapegoat me and lie on me to cover up their bad behavior. They also have turned family members against me. Thank you for the prayers.
 

crmvet

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Isaiah 54:17
 

MikeF

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Penny, I know that sometimes when we are on a different path than our family members, they can sometimes misunderstand and disagree with us. I’m sorry you are going through what you are going through. My prayer is that God would give you the wisdom and the grace to be victorious over this. I believe this kind of abuse isn’t uncommon, and it can be very painful and isolating. Find strength and hope where you can, and pray for them, maybe it will stop. God bless you!
 

homwardbound

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Penny, many times, when myself had been in situations, as yours, not exactly the same, yet in troubles over things, in my belief to God to lead, not me, others that have got in the way and caused troubles, not blaming them. Seeing it as was what it was now and that could happen again, not wanting troubles regardless, yet troubles never leave as I see them still going on in and around me all the time.
I have to this day not been able to ever escape trouble(s) I am 67 years old now. God has never ever forsaken me, even whenever it seemed as is by troubles I was in or am in, that are not good for me in my honest opinion.

As these you have mentioned here are not good for you. Yet can they be good for you? Can you rejoice over this abuse? If they see you not being bothered by there troubles presented on you from them, will they continue in them?

I am trusting God to speak to you inside you for you to see to be content in this happening for now, as God provides a way out for you. A cracked door a window, and opening somewhere, for you to go through in contentment in spite of these troubles happening to you for now. And praying for them to come to belief to God that God loves them in God's mercy and truth too.

God by you standing in trust to God, no matter what, will speak truth through you, not of get out anger, fight attitude

Of love, mercy and truth through you


Luke 21:14-15

New International Version

14 But make up your mind not to worry beforehand how you will defend yourselves. 15 For I will give you words and wisdom that none of your adversaries will be able to resist or contradict.

Love of 1 Cor 13:4-7 to you sister
 
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Thank you very much 😊. I spoke out against the violence in our family and they retaliated against me scapegoated me. It's painful, but I pray for them.
 

homwardbound

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Thank you very much 😊. I spoke out against the violence in our family and they retaliated against me scapegoated me. It's painful, but I pray for them.
Their, retaliation of the flesh nature they are in is flesh anger, knowing it is not good enough to ever please God, whether or not they realize it or not, matters not. Just stand in belief god has got your back, sides and has covered you in /God's love and mercy for everyone as I see you already do that. Prayer, trust is out and about and things will be seen as truth will win as won by Son in the resurrection of him as in Col 2 reveals this to me too
By the grace of God there go I, you and all that believe God loves them too
 

Sid

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Hello,

I am requesting prayer that my family would not abuse me anymore. They scapegoat me and lie on me to cover up their bad behavior. They also have turned family members against me. Thank you for the prayers.
Father in heaven, please be with person and give her/him peace, love, comfort, strength, joy, and compassion, wisdom, and heal the emotional wounds. Amen. I love you.
 

loveme1

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May… GOD, guide and comfort you through this torment. May love and forgiveness fill you all.
Glory to the Almighty GOD.
 
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Hello,

I am requesting prayer that my family would not abuse me anymore. They scapegoat me and lie on me to cover up their bad behavior. They also have turned family members against me. Thank you for the prayers.
In the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, amen.

Eternal Lord and Kind of all creation, save Your servant Penny from the family abuse. Help him to be Your righteous servant amidst his unbelieving and unrighteous family members. Help him to have peace inside and wisely cope with the verbal and physical (?) agression from his family members. Inspire him by Your word and may his involuntary intense sufferings help him to dedicate himself to the faith in You and hope upon You. Guide him in his quest for the Truth and the true meaning of life. May he find a wise solution for his problem. Make this salvation possible to him. In the name of Yeshua the Anointed One we pray, amen.
 

homwardbound

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Hello,

I am requesting prayer that my family would not abuse me anymore. They scapegoat me and lie on me to cover up their bad behavior. They also have turned family members against me. Thank you for the prayers.
Penny, I am trusting God Father in risen Son to reveal to you how to be content and get away from this, for you to seriously trust God to give you, the right words to respond in truth from Father through you
Luke 21:14
Settle it therefore in your hearts, not to meditate before what ye shall answer:
Doing that is trusting God to get you through it all
Luke 21:15
for I will give you a mouth and wisdom, which all your adversaries shall not be able to gainsay nor resist.

if does not happen at you might expect to happen, then start again in trust to hear and be new without any arrogance when see it work as it does work Faith without a doubt does work.
yet if one, anyone uses it for any self gain as to get away with things as you seeing is and has been being done to you, See to be humble in the love of God for you
Now go forth!
 

j55

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Hello sister. Try to get out of that toxic environment. Psalm chapter 92. The wicked are finished at the 7th Trump. Jesus is the judge, and those are enemies of the cross will pay for there evil. Wicked will be in sheol, it's holding place for the wicked until judgment Day. Luke chapter 16 to document.
I hope you find little comfort in this. Peace.
 

j55

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Your welcome sister. I had case manager help get me out of situation in 2018. I was abused by narcissist for several years. Verbally and emotional abuse. You would benefit from case worker. Senior center I think has case worker. And Heath clinic. At health center, you may have to participate in group therapy. In order to have case manager. I hope you would consider this. Your options are few. Case workers can help you find another place, and find job.

My narcissist family member, turned others against me. And uses religion as smoke screen. Fake Christian. Moving away ffom him gave me piece of mind. And there are Christian members who care about you. Much love. Take care.
 
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Thank you there's alot of physical and psychological abuse in my family. I'm the only one who is working on their doctorate and trying to make a better life for myself. There's a lack of Christian beliefs.
 

j55

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I hope you would consider case worker. They can help you get out of your situation. Senior centers and health clinics have case worker. I really believe you need to get out of there as soon as possible. This can damage you emotionally and psychological .
As Christian, im trying to persuade you to go to Senior center or health clinic, and get case worker. You must get out of that toxic environment.
The situation your in, its possible it might get worse. When I lived with narcissist 2018, the situation gradually deteriorated over time, and kept getting worse. The Solution was to move away.
Again, seriously consider getting case manager. Much love, take care.