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Kyless123

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So wife and i have 3 young children that are special needs I've talked a little bit about it before but one of them we cant figure out what's wrong with her. We just call it autism or a spectrum of it. They are all young and we've talked and had lots of appointments with al kinds of people but we still dont know the under cause of it. My wife tells the problems to all these people but some of them she holds some info back because she is worried they will tell protection services. So my question is. Is ther anyone else that holds some stuff back out fear? Not really sure if telling all of it helps anyway.
Meds don't work. She has the issues that the meds can cause. Every one she takes. Therapists dont seem like they do anything.last thing we did was get 2 horses which started to make things better but a week or so ago she back to day one with all the issues. There has to be somebody that knows about child issues. Part of my thoughts are many they dont know what this all is.
 
Roughsoul1991

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Kyless123 said:
So wife and i have 3 young children that are special needs I've talked a little bit about it before but one of them we cant figure out what's wrong with her. We just call it autism or a spectrum of it. They are all young and we've talked and had lots of appointments with al kinds of people but we still dont know the under cause of it. My wife tells the problems to all these people but some of them she holds some info back because she is worried they will tell protection services. So my question is. Is ther anyone else that holds some stuff back out fear? Not really sure if telling all of it helps anyway.
Meds don't work. She has the issues that the meds can cause. Every one she takes. Therapists dont seem like they do anything.last thing we did was get 2 horses which started to make things better but a week or so ago she back to day one with all the issues. There has to be somebody that knows about child issues. Part of my thoughts are many they dont know what this all is.
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We took in two teenagers that came out of child abuse and I have often not shared all the details for one some people are not mature enough to resist a bias mindset or judgments and two it isn't there business to know. Sometimes the more I told the more differently they were treated.
 
shittim

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A spiritual issue perhaps? That isn't an "exorcist" movie type thing.
I know when I started commanding healing in Jesus name success went up tremendously.
Derek Prince taught a nice calm way to command health and healing over all manner of things in Jesus name.
I applaud you for your love and caring.
 
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Kyless123 said:
Therapists dont seem like they do anything.last thing we did was get 2 horses which started to make things better but a week or so ago she back to day one with all the issues. There has to be somebody that knows about child issues. Part of my thoughts are many they dont know what this all is.
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you are spot on with that.
Many therapist don't know what autism/spectrum issues TRULY are, therefore they don't really help, and can make issues seem worse. (recently been there :rolleyes: )
Anyway, I could share stuff, but don't want it on these public forums, and would like to ask you more detailed questions that you probably wouldn't want to answer on these public forums. So, do you mind if I send you a private message about this stuff?
 
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Love the way you care GG!
Bless you
 
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Godsgirl83 said:
you are spot on with that.
Many therapist don't know what autism/spectrum issues TRULY are, therefore they don't really help, and can make issues seem worse. (recently been there :rolleyes: )
Anyway, I could share stuff, but don't want it on these public forums, and would like to ask you more detailed questions that you probably wouldn't want to answer on these public forums. So, do you mind if I send you a private message about this stuff?
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We can send messages. We are thinking maybe there is some kinda of spirit stuff. She told grandparents that the floating people tell her to do it. Going to get some cameras
 
CS1

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Kyless123 said:
So wife and i have 3 young children that are special needs I've talked a little bit about it before but one of them we cant figure out what's wrong with her. We just call it autism or a spectrum of it. They are all young and we've talked and had lots of appointments with al kinds of people but we still dont know the under cause of it. My wife tells the problems to all these people but some of them she holds some info back because she is worried they will tell protection services. So my question is. Is ther anyone else that holds some stuff back out fear? Not really sure if telling all of it helps anyway.
Meds don't work. She has the issues that the meds can cause. Every one she takes. Therapists dont seem like they do anything.last thing we did was get 2 horses which started to make things better but a week or so ago she back to day one with all the issues. There has to be somebody that knows about child issues. Part of my thoughts are many they dont know what this all is.
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  • Do you love your child?
  • Do you do anything that would be abusive to them?
  • Do you deny them the basic needs?

if you answered yes, no, and yes. You should never trust any government entity without verifying first. God expects you to do the right thing and help your children and raise them in the grace and knowledge of the Lord. Seek other Christian families who are going through what you are, they are out there.

Ask your pastor or other churches to connect you with families having the same challenges. Pray and trust God and never give out information that gives power over you.
 
CS1

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CS1 said:
  • Do you love your child?
  • Do you do anything that would be abusive to them?
  • Do you deny them the basic needs?

if you answered yes, no, and yes. You should never trust any government entity without verifying first. God expects you to do the right thing and help your children and raise them in the grace and knowledge of the Lord. Seek other Christian families who are going through what you are, they are out there.

Ask your pastor or other churches to connect you with families having the same challenges. Pray and trust God and never give out information that gives power over you.
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for the record the answer is yes ,no, no :)
 
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