Hi UnderGrace,
Thank you for going through your testimony, in part.
It sounds like you never had a conviction of sin and your debt to Jesus, you just wanted salvation.
And you changed your mind, so now you have salvation.
This does not sound like a christian conversion experience at all, or anything most believers would
recognise. We have something developed many years ago called the 4 spiritual laws.
1. God loves you and created you to know Him personally.
2. Man is sinful and separated from God, so we cannot know Him personally or experience His love.
3.Jesus Christ is God's only provision for man's sin. Through Him alone we can know God personally and experience God's love.
4. We must individually receive Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord; then we can know God personally and experience His love.
http://www.4laws.com/laws/englishkgp/default.htm
This is a basic outline of leading someone to Christ, which I have followed with folk over many years.
It is our walk in Jesus and our way as believers.
Now it is not for me to judge another, or even to know where they are, just to share what I know and how
the Lord has worked in my heart.
The great thing about this, is admitting our need for change, and knowing Jesus has the power to bring
this about. Praise the Lord.
So dear undergrace, I am always open, always loving, always willing to understand and empathise, but
my calling and obedience is to Jesus and His word, Amen.