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Subhumanoidal

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May I ask what does high maintenance mean? I was called this not long ago. I've never been called that before and I didn't think I fit the definition. I looked it up and I still don't think I fit the definition. I'm just curious, for my own edification, what is a good explanation for the term high maintenance. Preferably from a man's point of view, of course.
High maintenence women are basically women that tend to be focused on their appearance, wearing lots of makeup, spending a lot of time doing their hair. They're often needy for attention, and selfish and self centered.
For example, I once dated a woman who had some of these tendencies. One day I wanted to go to Wal-Mart and asked if she wanted to go. It was going to be a quick trip. I just needed one thing. She said yes but that she needed to get ready first.
TWO Hours later she was finally ready. To go into Walmart that didn't even take 5 mins to get in and out of. 🙄
I could've done that trip 4x's, maybe 5 in the amount of time it took her just to get ready.
 

CarriePie

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High maintenence women are basically women that tend to be focused on their appearance, wearing lots of makeup, spending a lot of time doing their hair. They're often needy for attention, and selfish and self centered.
For example, I once dated a woman who had some of these tendencies. One day I wanted to go to Wal-Mart and asked if she wanted to go. It was going to be a quick trip. I just needed one thing. She said yes but that she needed to get ready first.
TWO Hours later she was finally ready. To go into Walmart that didn't even take 5 mins to get in and out of. 🙄
I could've done that trip 4x's, maybe 5 in the amount of time it took her just to get ready.

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond and explain!

That doesn't describe me at all, so that's a relief. Not sure why that person said I'm high maintenance and it doesn't really matter as long as it's not true lol.