What are people, especially singles, to do with the sexual urges? Thoughts?
Some people call it discipline, others call it being able to control yourself. Still other say it is about having some honor. It's not really that hard to do.
I was the youngest kid out of 4 of us, so I got to see all of my big brothers and sister get their girlfriends and boyfriends and see their interactions and hear all about those problems they were having and I was able to recognize, whoa I don't want to go through what so and so went through, leave those type girls alone. And I got picky about girls. And I discovered something after awhile, that in a way, it felt good to turn certain girls down. Not that I played them or made them feel bad, no it wasn't about that. More like, WHoa, I really dodged a bullet on that one! I wonder how much grief that saved me. I made a pact with myself when I was very young in the getting a girlfriend circuit. That each time I wound up breaking up with a GF of mine for whatever reason, to not downgrade or settle on the next one. (I seen a bunch of guys do that!) And I vowed to, get the better girl than the last one. And I pretty much stuck to it. I was blessed enough to be very handsome in my youth and the girls gave me plenty of attention so most times, I had my pick, and I was picky! But I digress...
But more to the spiritual reality of our life. Do you understand that there is no such thing as privacy on this planet and never has been for any one who was ever born? As near as as I can tell, we all have a small entourage with us at all times. The Lord Jesus is God and omnipresent. He is always there. Watching, looking into your heart, speaking to you and your conscience. Jesus is in the Father and the Father is in Him, so the Father is there with you too. We have been born again so have the Holy Spirit indwelling us at all times. Then we have at least one Guardian Angel with us, assigned to us, and lastly we always have what they call a Scribe Angel with us, recording what we say and do and so forth. So it's pretty crowded in y room right now...Do I want to Masturbate and pretend their not there? Put on a show for them? Man how disgusting that would be. I wouldn't do it. I don't do it.
It's an actual evil spirit too, the Spirit of Masturbation. When someone masturbates for the first time, it opens the door for the spirit of masturbation to enter, they just invited him in. The then evil spirit of masturbation puts pornographic thoughts and images into their mind to get them to masturbate more and pretty soon, even their wife or husband isn't enough to satisfy them, they want more and more and fall into a deeper depravity that does much harm to their soul and heart.
God tells us to basically do four things. Humble ourselves, pray, seek His face, and turn from our wicked ways. Is masturbation on the list to do or to stop?
2 Chronicles 7:14
14 If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land..../KJV
There's your answer right there brother. Stop putting on a show. It sounds like it would be embarrassing?