If you meant "feminist", it's good that you aren't one. Feminism, at least in its present-day guise, is contrary to much of what Christians stand for.
If by "kings topped queens..." you mean that men have domineered women, I agree. If by it you mean that men should domineer or dominate women, I disagree.
In most cultures, men rule over women. I'd say that is an accurate fulfillment of the prophecy that "he shall rule over you". I see nothing in that statement, however, that it is God's will for men to rule over women.
Just logically... are you then in the position that God caused something what is not His will? Because it was not just a prophecy, it was a punishment.
Imagine a scenario, in which the USA will fall totally from God and God will say: "Because of what you did it, Russians will rule over you".
Is it not the will of God that Russians will rule, then?