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soo for the past 10 weeks, i've been asking God to show me the right way to live my life, i asked him to lead me to someone that would understand what i've been put threw as a kid, then 2weeks ago, my friend introduced me to this guy, who is such a caring and warm hearted sweet heart, and i find him very cute, but the thing is, i've been having abit of sexual thoughts about him, and idk if its normal or not, because i dont want anything sexual out of the friendship, becuase i took myself im not having anymore sexual intercose untill i was married, because last year i commed that sin but that an other story, but i do like this person alot, and he does understands me, and what ive been threw, but i don't know why i keep having some sexual thought about him,. is this normal or is it satian that playing wiht my mind
 
Child you have been set free from the law of sin and death (Rom. 8: 1-2), All lust and sexual immorality is sin and you have been set free from it. God has give you the strength to have whatever you say (Read Mark 11: 23) so whenever you get such thoughts confess with your mouth that you are free from all sin and death, and no weapon formed against you will prosper. God has given you that power. Have an awesome day/night and God bless you!
 
teencountrylove said:
soo for the past 10 weeks, i've been asking God to show me the right way to live my life, i asked him to lead me to someone that would understand what i've been put threw as a kid, then 2weeks ago, my friend introduced me to this guy, who is such a caring and warm hearted sweet heart, and i find him very cute, but the thing is, i've been having abit of sexual thoughts about him, and idk if its normal or not, because i dont want anything sexual out of the friendship, becuase i took myself im not having anymore sexual intercose untill i was married, because last year i commed that sin but that an other story, but i do like this person alot, and he does understands me, and what ive been threw, but i don't know why i keep having some sexual thought about him,. is this normal or is it satian that playing wiht my mind
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Unfortunately it is far to normal to have those thoughts. That is the flesh in us, that constantly battles with the spiritual "us" Our sinful flesh is corrupt to no end, in fact the bible tells us that it is so far broken it can never be repaired but needs to be replaced. So when Jesus say's "those who wish to follow me are to pick up their cross daily and follow me" He is telling us 2 things 1st the cross represents the death of our flesh (and the resurrection represents our life in the spirit) but because He says to pick up our cross daily, he is letting us know that this isn't a one time deal. That we have to deny our fleshly thoughts, and lusts daily,and moment by moment. To CHOOSE to change our focus from that which would lead us astray, to the Lord Jesus christ and what He has done for us. Focus on the "big picture" consider it like an exercise or practice. The more you do it, the more you practice it the easier it becomes. Our Lord says if your eye causes you to stumble it is better to pluck it from your head and cast it away for it is better to enter the kingdom of heaven with 1 eye than to enter into hell with both eyes. Now I don't think He is telling us to rip out our eyes. He is saying that if you look upon something that caused you to lust or covet after it, than choose to look away, and don't look back. Filter through what you allow yourself to gaze upon and listen too. Protect yourself and wear the whole armor of God. I hope this helped, God bless and be safe :)
 
ps. if you ever need a friend or someone to talk to, feel free to friend me or contact me any time :) God bless
 
well i wont address the awkwardness of a 28 year old man telling a 15 yr old girl that if she needs someone to talk to he is there in a thread about her issues with sexual thoughts, not saying there is anything bad about it persay, but it looks bad.

as far as the thoughts go, having them is probably natural i would say, but the thing is what you do when you have them. if you push them away and refocus on other things then i would say you are doing well. if you tend to continue with them in your mind i would say that is bad.
 
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well i wont address the awkwardness of a 28 year old man telling a 15 yr old girl that if she needs someone to talk to he is there in a thread about her issues with sexual thoughts, not saying there is anything bad about it persay, but it looks bad.

as far as the thoughts go, having them is probably natural i would say, but the thing is what you do when you have them. if you push them away and refocus on other things then i would say you are doing well. if you tend to continue with them in your mind i would say that is bad.
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sorry for how it "appears" for its not how its intended it is how its percieved. I have a 14 year old sister, though she doesn't frequent this site I'm affraid and she probably doesn't have insight regarding this anyway. The offering of help isn't only on this subject its on any subject and its not just for her it is for anybody and at the end of all of my threads I offer my friendship and further assistance in clarifying anything that I've failed to convey.
 
ParaZep said:
Deadtosin thank you so much for your post. It's was really helpful for me.


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:D! I am so glad to hear that :) thank you for letting me know it helped. There is nothing like finding out you have another brother in Christ :) stay blessed! and you know the drill, feel free to add me as a friend or send me an email regarding anything, ever. What are brothers in Christ for? if not to support eachother and to help shed light into the shadows.

-stay blessed :)
 
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