Insecurity

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Hi I suffer a lot from insecurity and it always makes me look stuck up because everytime I walk infront of people i make myself feel better than them so I won't feel insecure but that's why people hate me because I'm stuck up but I just want to feel good because I don't . I hate myself I hate my body I hate every inch of me I hate everything about myself I know people say everyone is beautiful in their own way but I don't believe them because it doesn't help to know that .
 
Why do hate yourself? Always remember you are precious in God's eyes. He bought you for a a very high price. Give yourself some love. Affirm your good qualities everyday. Dont talk bad to yourself. Say only good things to yourself. Dont compare yourself to others. Confidence starts with you. It shouldnt come from what others will say about you but from your own faith in yourself and faith in God. Relax and be your awesome self.
 
Wow....you just chose the worst course for the rest of your life...allowing satan to diminish who and what you are in Christ. Since when does GOD choose professional runway models for His service? Since when does what you look like prohibit you from helping others and being a witness for JESUS to them? I know of an evangelist who has NO arms or Legs at all, and is travelling the world as God's representative. I met a pastor who's skin was melted away in a bomb blast and he is building factories, churches and spreading GOD's Word to Vietnamese refugees. I have worked in soup kitchens where a smile, a firm handshake, a hug and a good hearty dose of hospitality is all a homeless person seeks for the moment. They do not care about your makeup, hair color, body weight and how high your nose is stuck in the air. This attitude of your low self esteem is just a ploy of satan holding you back from what GOD would have you do. To hell with the devil, and on to Victory for you, Love559. The Bible says "Be ye transformed by the renewing of your MIND" Nobody but yourself can hold you back from the joy that comes by having JESUS as your Savior and sharing that joy with others, in whatever way HE leads you.
 
At the risk of sounding harsh I must say the problem is that you are self absorbed. Your focus on yourself has become your prison. Now I have the answer if you really want to hear it :)

Galatians 2:20 - I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ lives in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.

Romans 12:1 - I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.

Colossians 3:3 - For ye are dead, and your life is hid with Christ in God.

2 Corinthians 5:17 - Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
 
Hey girl,

You're worth it. Every inch of you is perfectly made by your Father, the Creator of heaven and earth.

Love, Chan
 
It doesn't matter what other people think of you. In God eyes your beautiful. You shouldn't being hating yourself instead loving yourself after all God is the one that created you for a purpose in your life. Everytime you walk up infront of people just smile or laugh.
 
Love559 said:
Hi I suffer a lot from insecurity and it always makes me look stuck up because everytime I walk infront of people i make myself feel better than them so I won't feel insecure but that's why people hate me because I'm stuck up but I just want to feel good because I don't . I hate myself I hate my body I hate every inch of me I hate everything about myself I know people say everyone is beautiful in their own way but I don't believe them because it doesn't help to know that .
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James 4:4
Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

1 John 2:15
Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

John 15:19
If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.

John 12:25
Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life.

2 Corinthians 10
That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

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That feeling that you don't belong to this world? It's because you don't belong to this world. The fact that you suffer in it says you must be doing something right
 
Love559 said:
Hi I suffer a lot from insecurity and it always makes me look stuck up because everytime I walk infront of people i make myself feel better than them so I won't feel insecure but that's why people hate me because I'm stuck up but I just want to feel good because I don't . I hate myself I hate my body I hate every inch of me I hate everything about myself I know people say everyone is beautiful in their own way but I don't believe them because it doesn't help to know that .
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I hate to be harsh but, young lady, you gotta grow up. No one's gonna be around you all your life to pat you in the back and make you feel good. You can choose to realize that now or continue living in delusion. You say you are insecure because you hate every part of your body. Ever met this guy?

Nick-Vujicic.jpg


Change your perspective and try not thinking about yourself for one day.
 
Abing said:
I hate to be harsh but, young lady, you gotta grow up. No one's gonna be around you all your life to pat you in the back and make you feel good. You can choose to realize that now or continue living in delusion. You say you are insecure because you hate every part of your body. Ever met this guy?

Nick-Vujicic.jpg


Change your perspective and try not thinking about yourself for one day.
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This guy is amazing! He certainly lives his faith doesnt he?
 
RickyZ said:
James 4:4
Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? Whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.

1 John 2:15
Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

John 15:19
If ye were of the world, the world would love his own: but because ye are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hateth you.

John 12:25
Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life.

2 Corinthians 10
That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

***
That feeling that you don't belong to this world? It's because you don't belong to this world. The fact that you suffer in it says you must be doing something right
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:confused: Forgive me for saying: I dont think you read what she said. Your answer doesnt speak to .............

Hi I suffer a lot from insecurity and it always makes me look stuck up because everytime I walk infront of people i make myself feel better than them so I won't feel insecure but that's why people hate me because I'm stuck up but I just want to feel good because I don't . I hate myself I hate my body I hate every inch of me I hate everything about myself I know people say everyone is beautiful in their own way but I don't believe them because it doesn't help to know that .
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Abing said:
He does! Amen! I still haven't read any one of his books lol but I've heard some of his attempted suicides when he was younger. Must have been harsh.
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Ive watched him on youtube. He is mega inspiring!! I dont remeber his name though. Do you remember his name or channel? Posting one of his videos would be great.
 
blondieindahouse said:
Ive watched him on youtube. He is mega inspiring!! Do you remember his name or channel? Posting one of his videos would be great.
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I had a hard time remembering how to spell his last name lol. Nick Vujicic. Oh yeah here's a short inspiring vid of him

[video=youtube;zOzsjEmjjHs]https://www.youtube.com/watch?gl=SG&hl=en-GB&v=zOzsjEmjjHs[/video]
 
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