I don't know if this will help at all, but I know Deade has mentioned his own books several times on the site. I was just thinking you might be able to PM and ask him about his own experiences as well,if he doesn't happen to answer this thread?
Best wishes to you! I have a friend who published a book several years ago, and seeing everything she's going through -- and is still going through -- has given me only the utmost respect for modern authors!
Please keep us posted.