Im living in adultry

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Jun 17, 2020
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it sucks because i have a child from him and every time i run into Jesus arms and leave it to him. i cry and think back but wait hes my childs father then he try's to drag me down with him and its repeating over and over again i feel like im stuck . huhhhhhhh? il
 

Subhumanoidal

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it sucks because i have a child from him and every time i run into Jesus arms and leave it to him. i cry and think back but wait hes my childs father then he try's to drag me down with him and its repeating over and over again i feel like im stuck . huhhhhhhh? il
That was a bit tough to interpret. And lacked clear information. But I'm guessing your kids dad is no good. Yet you keep going back to him?
You didn't say Why you keep going back though. If he's a bad guy, then the idea that the kids are better off having him around is false. That simply means he will teach your children to behave as he does.
The issue is seeing the bad for how it is and not letting false ideas blind you to the truth. Once you're able to see clearly then leaving becomes easier.
 

blue_ladybug

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Yeah, leave his sorry butt.. You and your kids deserve better..
 

Frontios1996

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Remember that the Lord forgives, and there's always a way out. Whether that involves your partner, who can tell. But remember to put your child's wellbeing as the top priority. No matter who his father is, your child is made in the image of God, and needs to be made safe.
 

Nao

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There is so better out of there. Adultry is a trap, it seems you can't run away. The way to overcome this situation is to win the battle in your mind, you can choice to be a slave of it or to win. Yours, is the choice. Consider what is good for you, your family and for God. Overcome is simply a decision, nothing more nothing less, a firm and easy decision, you don't have to think about nothing else than: shall i stay here in this adultry situation? don't mind of anything, just reply to this question for yourself. Remember: yours is the decision. What you want.
If you will make your choice for God He will surely, surely find a way to help you.