As far as my own money habits:
1. Im not in debt, if I borrow I borrow from myself out of a 401k for cars, home improvement etc.
2. I hide money from myself and my wife. I have a 401k, ira, a cd, stocks, a vacation account, and a few other accounts to make the money hard to get to.
3. I own stuff that holds value. I own a Jeep, camry, f150 and a motorcycle that holds value. i could sell my jeep and motorcycle for more than i bought them for. my home is was built in the 60s so its pretty solid and ii keep it up.
4. Me nor my wife make big purchases without each other
5. I pray about the money we spend and we pay our tithes and i dont think its Gods will for us to be rich so I dont try.