How We Can Tell If We Possess The Agape of God

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gb9

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Yes you are - you're just in denial.
glad you can read minds.

you ought to set up a booth at your local mall and charge folks for telling them what they think....
 
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According to the parable of the tares, there are at least some (a multitude) that are incapable of the spiritual fruit of agape.
The tares are not Saints - they are hypocrites who gave the appearance of wheat but are later revealed to be otherwise. Matthew 24:12 is dealing with Saints.
Yes. But, what you have not demonstrated is that "agape grown cold" necessarily means the absence or being devoid of agape. Your entire premise pivots on that interpretation but there is nothing to demonstrate that it is necessarily the case.
While it is true that "cold agape" is not specifically called "dead agape", it's certainly must be a state of "insufficiently" (2 Kings 4:34 KJV; Revelation 3:16 KJV) when even "lukewarmness" falls short, right? What else could "cold agape" imply but "dead agape"?

The truth is that most of us had no problem accepting these "many" were lost until I pointed out that they can only be Saints because the wicked cannot possess or exercise "agape" -- because John says the "agape of God" is demonstrated by keeping the commandments (1 John 5:2-3 KJV) but Paul says the wicked can't keep them, even if they wanted to (Romans 8:7 KJV).
 
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glad you can read minds.

you ought to set up a booth at your local mall and charge folks for telling them what they think....
Then why do you have such a hard time accepting that the "many" are Saints that wind up lost because their once hot agape has turned cold.......which is worse than the lukewarmness that leaves the Laodiceans spiritually "wretched, miserable, poor, blind, and naked" ("nakedness" being also a euphemism for being in a lost condition)?
 
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how many times must i tell you- i am not o s a s.

i think one can believe in Christ and then stop believing.

but, your " behave your way into Heaven" is just as bad as o s a s.

both offer a false sense of security.
how many times must I tell you - i am not a "salvation by works" or a "retention of salvation by works" proponent?

We either accept, reject, or accept then later reject salvation - all of which are internal, cognitive choices we make, after which our outward, physical works are the manifest evidence.

Do you agree or disagree?
 

gb9

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how many times must I tell you - i am not a "salvation by works" or a "retention of salvation by works" proponent?

We either accept, reject, or accept then later reject salvation - all of which are internal, cognitive choices we make, after which our outward, physical works are the manifest evidence.

Do you agree or disagree?

i agree.

but, you see, salvation is by trust and faith in Christ only.


that will produce external good works and good behavior. but, if the occasional bad behavior on the outside occur, that does not mean a change of belief on the inside.

there is this thing called a sin nature we are all born with.
does that go away when one choses Christ as Savior?
as i recall, you have not yet said so.
so, sin nature gone or not?
 

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In Matthew 24:12-13 KJV, Jesus contrasts two groups: (1) those that "shall endure to the end" and are "saved", and (2) the "many" who allow their love to grow cold because of widespread iniquity.
STOP!!!
At this time, please take a moment to acknowledge what you
and everyone else believes about these "many":
that they are the wicked who were never saved
and will end up lost
.

Except, that these "many" are indeed saints!

How do we know?

Jesus said their "love" (Greek: "AGAPE") would grow cold and only the saints can partake of "agape"!

How do we know?

John says the agape of God is demonstrated by the keeping of His commandments (1 John 5:3 KJV) while Paul says the wicked absolutely cannot keep God's commandments even if they wanted to (Romans 8:7 KJV)!!!

Now, at this time, you are reconsidering what you acknowledged a few seconds ago:
that the "many" whose agape grows cold and dead are going to be lost.

When you thought the "many" were the wicked, you had no problem understanding they would be lost
in contrast to those who will endure to the end and are saved,
but now that I've proven these "many" can't possibly be the "wicked" - but are saints who will end up lost -
you're now stumbling over yourself to find a way to make them "saved"
because of your preconceived belief in OSAS.

Shame on you. You know full well that we are never to approach the Bible with preconceived notions and search for texts that prop up our doctrine, but we are to pray for the Holy Spirit to "guide you into all truth", come what may. Well, what has come is the death of OSAS. What are you going to do about it?
The way you wrote this is comical. It’s as if you’re taking us through the thought process of how you perceive people will be reading your post and coming to an epiphany. 😆

This I will say. Reading Matthew 24 in its entirety makes you want to make sure that you will not be taking a “portion with the hypocrites” where there will be “weeping and gnashing of teeth.” 😅

I do consider that Jesus often personified the perfection required under the Law in order to be saved and do wonder if that is the case here (including Matthew 25; since the parable is spoken before His death and resurrection). If you take what He is saying here, one might think philanthropy is the means to salvation. These people loved (the sheep) and these people didn’t (the goats).

The passages here seem self-reflective. “Am I a genuine believer and do my works, my fruit, bear witness to the truth of my repentance?” Self examination.
 

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Good. Then you agree with me that the "many" of Matthew 24:12 can only be Saints, their agape waxes cold (which is a Biblical euphemism for "death") due to their practice of iniquity (why the flip else would their love for God die, except through starving the Spiritual nature and feeding the Carnal nature?), and their fate is in contrast to those who "endure to the end" and are "saved".
It doesn't say love of God ... it says love.

Agape is God's love the only experience we have of it is when He pours it into our hearts, it's not ours it's His.
 
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i agree. but, you see, salvation is by trust and faith in Christ only. that will produce external good works and good behavior. but, if the occasional bad behavior on the outside occur, that does not mean a change of belief on the inside.
I never said "occasional bad behavior" changes belief on the inside - this describes the Just Man who falls 7 times and rises again, each time more determined to choose Jesus over sin.

I say "habitual, known, deliberate bad behavior" by the impenitent Presumptuous Man who demands a cover of mercy for it will be eternally lost, as says the Scripture.
here is this thing called a sin nature we are all born with. does that go away when one choses Christ as Savior? as i recall, you have not yet said so. so, sin nature gone or not?
Of course the sin nature is still there, it's just that the true, Christ-indwelt Christian is not a slave to it.

So, why do so many claim they can't keep the Ten Commandments? The same reason cheating husbands can't stay faithful to a good wife: they don't love the one they profess to love and is why many in church today praising Jesus and waving their hands at this very moment are no more saved than the worst sinner who openly opposes the authority of God.
 
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The way you wrote this is comical. It’s as if you’re taking us through the thought process of how you perceive people will be reading your post and coming to an epiphany. 😆

This I will say. Reading Matthew 24 in its entirety makes you want to make sure that you will not be taking a “portion with the hypocrites” where there will be “weeping and gnashing of teeth.” 😅

I do consider that Jesus often personified the perfection required under the Law in order to be saved and do wonder if that is the case here (including Matthew 25; since the parable is spoken before His death and resurrection). If you take what He is saying here, one might think philanthropy is the means to salvation. These people loved (the sheep) and these people didn’t (the goats).

The passages here seem self-reflective. “Am I a genuine believer and do my works, my fruit, bear witness to the truth of my repentance?” Self examination.
Not comical - totally accurate. OSAS Licensees and Antinomianists never had a problem concluding Jesus is contrasting the fate of those in Mathew 24:12 KJV whose love grows cold through widely practiced iniquity...with those who endure to the end and saved in verse 13, meaning those in 12 are lost.

Until they find out the "many" in verse 12 are Saints, that is - and instead of admitting Saints can be lost, the ensuing Cognitive Dissonance results in the most asinine reasoning for why the "many" are Saints which won't be lost at all or that the "many" are actually wicked can possess and practice "agape".
 
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It doesn't say love of God ... it says love.

Agape is God's love the only experience we have of it is when He pours it into our hearts, it's not ours it's His.
Is not "agape" the highest from of love which comes only from God? Are you saying the wicked can manifest such love, having no connection to God?

Do you understand that "agape" is shown by the keeping of the commandments (1 John 5:3 KJV), which the wicked cannot keep (Romans 8:7 KJV) and thus show they have not received it from God???

Can you see the "many" are actually Saints whose agape grows cold and dead, and will be lost?
 
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I'm not going to continue this silly dance. I have stated my position clearly.
You can't have it both ways. If you're not willing to accept the "many" are Saints, then you believe they are wicked and that the wicked can partake of "agape" love...I'm pretty sure you're all alone in that belief.
 

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You can't have it both ways. If you're not willing to accept the "many" are Saints, then you believe they are wicked and that the wicked can partake of "agape" love...I'm pretty sure you're all alone in that belief.
Wrong, though exactly what I expected you to say.

Go and read up on the fallacy of the excluded middle, also called the false dichotomy.
 
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The tares are not Saints - they are hypocrites who gave the appearance of wheat but are later revealed to be otherwise.
"Saint" doesn't explicitly appear in Matthew 24 and the concept of what a saint is varies. I'm not sure I fully understand your meaning of saint here but if a saint is the wheat in parable of the tares, while it's true that the tares are not wheat, the wheat are also not tares (and I assume couldn't suddenly become one). Tares are entirely subject to fire but wheat are subject to purification and salvation.

While it is true that "cold agape" is not specifically called "dead agape", it's certainly must be a state of "insufficiently" (2 Kings 4:34 KJV; Revelation 3:16 KJV) when even "lukewarmness" falls short, right? What else could "cold agape" imply but "dead agape"?
"And when Elisha was come into the house, behold, the child was dead, and laid upon his bed. He went in therefore, and shut the door upon them twain, and prayed unto the Lord. And he went up, and lay upon the child, and put his mouth upon his mouth, and his eyes upon his eyes, and his hands upon his hands: and stretched himself upon the child; and the flesh of the child waxed warm. Then he returned, and walked in the house to and fro; and went up, and stretched himself upon him: and the child sneezed seven times, and the child opened his eyes." - 2 Kings 32-35

The 2 Kings 4:34 reference is puzzling because that part of 2 Kings 4 is talking about something akin to CPR performed on a child. "flesh of the [formly dead] child waxed warm." I see the possible connection but it's not clear in 2 Kings 4 at what point the child returned to life (after the prayer and before being warmed? Or after being warmed? Or after the last stretch?). If we're trying to look at 2 Kings 4's usage of "warm" as a means of gauging the presence of life, it isn't necessarily the case that "warm = alive".

"And unto the angel of the church of the Laodiceans write; These things saith the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the beginning of the creation of God; I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth. Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods, and have need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked [...] be zealous therefore, and repent." Revelation 3:14-17&19b KJV

Lukewarm meaning "insufficient" in at least the sense of not meeting the glory of God, but there is additional context in the passages around Rev 3:16. Even the church of the Laodiceans is not necessarily voided of their salvation as a result of their falsely founded pride and contentment. In order to better themselves, God tells them to repent. This seems to be more of a theme of losing ones way rather than an explicit ejection from salvation.

The truth is that most of us had no problem accepting these "many" were lost until I pointed out that they can only be Saints because the wicked cannot possess or exercise "agape" -- because John says the "agape of God" is demonstrated by keeping the commandments (1 John 5:2-3 KJV) but Paul says the wicked can't keep them, even if they wanted to (Romans 8:7 KJV).
1 Corinthians 13:8 tells us that "agape never fails". I find it hard to reconcile "agape never fails" with the interpretation of Mat 24:12 as "agape that has died".

If we interpret Mat 24:12's "love waxed cold" as "agape that has lost much of its expressed intensity" it seems to be much more compatible with 1 Cor 13:8.
 

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Is not "agape" the highest from of love which comes only from God? Are you saying the wicked can manifest such love, having no connection to God?

Do you understand that "agape" is shown by the keeping of the commandments (1 John 5:3 KJV), which the wicked cannot keep (Romans 8:7 KJV) and thus show they have not received it from God???

Can you see the "many" are actually Saints whose agape grows cold and dead, and will be lost?
It's YOU who is saying the wicked who have no connection with God can manifest agape love, or they were saved and then they were not and perhaps then they were again ... what a mess.

You do not keep the commandments, cannot keep it perfectly nobody [apart from one] ever has. If you break one law you are guilty of all, the law can't bend, it cannot make exceptions or it could no longer be law. It does not accept doing your best.

We keep God's commandments they are not burdensome, the commandments of Moses were burdensome. Peter said they were a yoke which neither the fathers or they were able to bear.

This is God's commandment, Receive the Holy Spirit by hearing with faith and not by obedience to the law.

This is why 7th dayers have no witness of the Holy Spirit ... I've met a ton of them, they do not have the witness.

I say the love of many which we see already is growing cold does not refer to the church.
 

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Shame on you. You know full well that we are never to approach the Bible with preconceived notions and search for texts that prop up our doctrine
I thought we were going to talk about love.. ?