those who welcome you will run away from you when time of trouble comes ! I would say you have a friend in Jesus He is a true one , I testify His friendship is true , and He will stay when everyone forsake you! , and one more important thing , dont listen to anyone here on this site , they can tell you sweet words (its not their own they barrow it from the bible) but dont do as they do because what they say is something , and what they do is something else (my experience) .