I simply believe what Scripture says even if my experiences don't always line up to it. I will aways preach faith and focus on faith, not to condemn people as I have seen others do. But because Scripture teaches that faith alone pleases Him. And He desires us to be faithful when He returns.
And I agree, saying someone isn't healed because they don't have enough faith can be dangerous, but equally dangerous is teaching that God doesn't heal today. It is because of theology like this that many people don't have a personal relationship with God. They think He is only His Book. They read ABOUT Him, but they do not believe they can truly know Him. Yet it is Scripture that teaches us eternal life is to know Him.
We must be careful to not strain out gnats and swallow camels. I agree we must be careful to not destroy our brothers and sisters in their time of pain and sorrow, but we must balance this with an understanding of who God is. And not ignoring Scriptures because we haven't seen them.
Many people don't believe God is good because their "experiences" didn't show Him to be good. But what do we tell them? Don't let your feelings and your experiences disagree with what Scripture says. He is a mysterious God, but He is good even when we don't understand what's happening.
Do we take out the idea God is good, that God wants people to know Him, simply because some don't? I certainly hope not!
People struggle with drugs, they struggle with depression, anxiety, and fear, but when they look for freedom from these things because of this disastrous theology people point them to the world. Even though Scripture says that the Kingdom of God is not word, but also of power. Yes we need compassion, but equally we need the power of God.
I struggled with depression, I was told I would be on depression drugs for my entire life, I used to struggle with anxiety, I jumped out of 3 moving cars, spent time in a hospital for it, yet through all of this God showed up and God set me free. Would you have me stay silent about what God did in my life and to sit quietly by instead of inspiring hope in others for what He can do, simply because some people mysteriously don't experience it? I refuse. I refuse to let the testimonies of God be silenced out of fear of offending a few. And I refuse to neuter the power of God because some people think it's a prosperity gospel.
Please address what I am saying and not what I am not saying. I pray that we could equally have compassion and faith. That we could find a balance between the two instead of tripping over both ditches.