Please do not insult me, I understand quite well.
You can not claim you are not pumping your chest when you claim you were chosen and your neighbor was not.
Paul said we are saved by Grace period. But through faith not works, lest anyone should boast (He separates our saving faith from works, and claims those who are saved through faith are not of those who boast. it is those who try to be saved by works) )
When God comes and gives me his gospel. and says he wants to save me, Me, in faith, saying "Yes lord I trust you and I want you to apply your death to my soul", is not me saving myself. I do not know who came up with this idea. but it is not from God.
EG's understanding seems sufficient IMO, but I don't understand why MF thinks this contradicts understanding that "God is Sovereign and has Dominion over his creation." The sovereign God created NOT sovereign humanity with volition per His command in DT 30:19 and Christ's lament in MT 23:37.
So, what's the problem here?