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I got this girlfriend who doesn't believe in God, are parents are divorced so she's kind of broken hearted.. I've never seen her coz we only chat online. And whenever i talk about God, she doesn't reply.So we don't really talk most times...

Now she wants to talk, and she's asking for CHAT SEX, My friend is advising me to, dat it will help bring help us together. She's done it with her formal boyfriend and she thinks it's cool... I don't want to hurt her more coz she's going through a lot now.

I'm in a fix, coz i know it's against my believes.. Need help on this, TANX
 
I got this girlfriend who doesn't believe in God, are parents are divorced so she's kind of broken hearted.. I've never seen her coz we only chat online. And whenever i talk about God, she doesn't reply.So we don't really talk most times...

Now she wants to talk, and she's asking for CHAT SEX, My friend is advising me to, dat it will help bring help us together. She's done it with her formal boyfriend and she thinks it's cool... I don't want to hurt her more coz she's going through a lot now.

I'm in a fix, coz i know it's against my believes.. Need help on this, TANX

Ahh mate, wish i could say this is easy but it's not.. You've gotta avoid CHAT SEX, it may bring you closer but remember she's not a Christian. You might think she's everything to you but remember what it says in 2 Corinthians 6 :14
Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?
Be a friend to her, but refuse chat sex. it goes against your principles, God's principles and she may respect you more because you refuse. if she doesn't respect you more than your not meant to be. I was in a similar situation so mate, i do sort of know what i'm talking about.
God Bless you
 
I got this girlfriend who doesn't believe in God, are parents are divorced so she's kind of broken hearted.. I've never seen her coz we only chat online. And whenever i talk about God, she doesn't reply.So we don't really talk most times...

Now she wants to talk, and she's asking for CHAT SEX, My friend is advising me to, dat it will help bring help us together. She's done it with her formal boyfriend and she thinks it's cool... I don't want to hurt her more coz she's going through a lot now.

I'm in a fix, coz i know it's against my believes.. Need help on this, TANX
Choose, GOD or your gf.
That's what I did. Of course I chose GOD.
 
yeah. Choose God. and God will give you another gf, which will be better :D
 
People try to fill themselves with things of the physical in order to be filled inside. Only true Love (JESUS) can mend a heart, only true Joy can fill a soul.
The only way you can help her is by telling her about Jesus. Thats the only way.
And I also advise you to get good christian friends and stop looking for or getting non-christian friends. You are still young, and you need to be around friends who will help you move on. God bless
 
XDDD There's so much about the post I can't even begin to handle.

For the record: Online girlfriends are not real girlfriends.
 
Hi,
I think you need to stop this relationship at once because you are playing with fire and desobeying what Jesus's teaching,that there isn't a fellowship betwen darkness and light.
So if you want to be a blessing in the life of this girl be very clear about what you believe and share the Gospel with her and tell her that you are going to pray for her as a friend otherwise she will pull you down,down to the pit,because she is not a christian and her concept of relationship is very different than yours.