Girl problems

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Stephen63 said:
Sorry, but I don't believe you at all.
You slept over at a girl's house in her bed with her parent's permission? And neither of you did anything?
If you were a christian you wouldn't do that..... even liberal christians would be uneasy with that.

A "christian" guy sleeps in a bed with a lyin' girl who doesn't take advantage of him, who has parents that lets boys sleep with their daughter? I was born during the day, but not yesterday.....

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im sorry it's so unbelievable that a teenage boy can share a bed with a girl and not have sex. I guess that speaks a lot about my generation. The fact that instead of going there when her parents weren't home but instead I came and asked for advice on here and from my father shows that I'm not like that. And she did lie to her parents, I doubt they would have let me sleep in her bed if they knew I was straight.
 
I've told her that I can't keep being friends with her if she's constantly lying and sinning. It sucks walking away from somebody you love but I guess it's the right thing to do here.
 
Dear young brother.. you are 13 years old and a LOT of school and stuff to still come to pass. Try not to worry so much to worry about girls. She surely doesnt think your gay, she only used that as a excuse ( very bad degrading excuse i my eyes ) to let them allow you to sleep with her. Alone from your head and heart from God you should know better then to sleep with her. You should know better. I am pretty sure that when your 16 you prolly gonna see another girl and look back at this post facepalming yourself.
Work on your education, not about gettin married to a girl that lies about you being GAY (hey you cant even get married till 18 or 21 over there anyways)! If I would visit a guy and he would tell his parents I am gay so he could have me sleepin in his bed hell would be breaking loose.
Its a insult, especially as a child of God to be called that abomination. I would dump that person right away and go right back home. Your worth more than that.
And yes I believe you that you didnt do anything with that girl.
 
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It is wise if you to back away from that relationship. I've also ended one, though for different reasons, I know it hurts a lot.

I don't like it when people speak of puppy love (I suspect they've forgotten how intense it feels :p ), but... your are still young, and it would be very strange if there doesn't show up someone else at a later point. When you are older, you will have more experience, and maybe better equipped to discern the other person and be able to build a relationship built on both love and honesty :)
 
JamesHurst said:
I've told her that I can't keep being friends with her if she's constantly lying and sinning. It sucks walking away from somebody you love but I guess it's the right thing to do here.
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That takes a lot of guts, and I know you'll never regret it. Focus on your school, and yeah, make friends. But save the romance for your future wife :) (and I'm sorry, what ever you tell yourself you still have a lot of growing and maturing to do, so you can't really know who your future wife will be at this time in your life).
 
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