Getting out of an abusive relationship

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Gemmy

Gemmy

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Please pray for me. I am in an abusive relationship with my daughters dad. Let me say we are not married and with how things have gone downhill and how his behavior is, I cannot see myself being with a man like him forever. He is abusive, he’s threatened to hurt me on many occasions, he’s emotionally Unavailable, and doesn’t care about my feelings at all. Because of his behavior, my daughter has to stay at my parents house so she doesn’t see him yelling and hitting me. I’m beyond tired of it. I cannot take it anymore. Please pray that God removes him from my life and my families and that I find a good man for me that be a good father figure to my daughter.
 
Subhumanoidal

Subhumanoidal

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Hey
Sorry to hear about this. I can't stand manboys that act like that.

I wouldn't be worried about praying for a new man at this point. You're far from that point. It shouldn't even be on your mind.
Also, i wouldn't make plans to sit and wait for him to up and leave. You need to make the plans and remove yourself from this situation. And once you do, you need to get counseling for yourself, and possibly your daughter. And spend your next few years healing and learning about how you ended up here and to avoid it again. That way you can be healthy enough to find a better man, and be healed enough to enter that relationship with a mindset healthy enough to maintain it.
It's not easy, it's going to be hard and a lot of work. But less work than staying and waiting for something to happen.
I hope things can go well for you and you can get out of there.
 
Defenderofgrace

Defenderofgrace

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Go date a male police officer, and a lawyer who specializes in restraining orders.
 
levi85

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Lord we bring Gemmy and this prayer to you please bless. Lord let you heal the relationship between Gemmy and her daughters dad, give your understanding and help them respect one another, Lord remove problems from their lives and relationship and bless their lives. Lord bless this prayer and you br glorified in Jesus loving name, Amen!
 
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Sweetmorningdew78

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That is sad Gemmy...you don't deserve a man like him...leave him now and never look back...

Ask for help...from your parents or your trusted friends or the authorities.


Father please help Gemmy in her situation right now give her the strength and wisdom to leave her abusive relationship. Lord please show her the way out and bring people that will going to help her to pick up herself and start over a new life. Thank you Lord! In Jesus gracious name! Amen ❤
 
Leastamongmany

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Gemmy! I pray for you now! I REBUKE the forces of evil that inhabit this man's soul that seeks to destroy. Lord you see and know all! I pray that You would save Gemmy and her child's dad! You are able to shake the very foundations of the earth with just a tap of Your foot,therefore I BELIEVE...NOTHING...IS IMPOSSIBLE WITH YOU! Prayer touches your heart and we lift this situation in faith before you! Bring salvation to this home! Knowing you force no one to accept you,every time he lifts a hand against her may be feel Your hand against him! Direct her to seek help and shelter if needed,knowing that she has to take action for protection of her child and herself! Resolve this issue according to Your word and Your will Dear Father! We put our trust in You! We ask for wisdom to know what choice to make,the strength to do it,and the faith that You will oversee her decision!Again I ask You to bring about Your deliverance in this home! In Jesus name! Amen🌞🌞🌞
 
Bingo

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"I pray you are delivered from this troubling family dilemma, and hope you find time
to turn to God, and hopefully come to a reasonable solution for all concerned."
'Amen'

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Mezame83

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I'm sorry you're going through this, sounds like a horrible situation.
I agree with Sub, focus on getting yourself out of that situation and take the time to heal and allow God to work in you before even thinking about another relationship.

I will be praying for you and your daughter. If you need someone to chat with, feel free to message me.

God bless you.
 
EmilyFoster

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I’m sorry to hear about the struggles you have been facing in this relationship. I’m praying, asking God to surround you with His love, comfort and protection. May He intervene in your situation, give you wisdom and direction as you trust in him. Also, it might be helpful to speak to a counselor. I know that Focus on the Family can provide a free phone consultation with a licensed counselor if you call this number 855-382-5433. Grace and peace to you and yours.
 
Leastamongmany

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Gemmy,I hope you keep in touch love! Continuing to pray about your home....love and peace to you
 
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