single but know that Jesus is always our best friend & He's open 24 hours a day! 1 thing i don't hear or see enough is that Jesus is a funny guy. yes, he is. he jokes with me often. i say this because many churches portray almost a sad & or dull image of Jesus. saying that you can't do this too much, can't do that too much & on & on. i attended a church for a while back about 18 years ago & the pastor was in control of the congregation too much. you easily could discern that he minimized fun times whether it was game time at church or church picnics. 1 time, at a church member's party, he tried to cut the time to 3 hours & actually announced something like this: "okay folks let's rap this up". i said to myself, "this guy wants to control his harem like a bull". many did not appreciate that & thought the same thing i did. by course, i stopped attending the church. he did a pretty good job pastoring though. vbereses for encouragement: Psalms 16, 21, 46, 62 & 146. "smile a long while in Jesus" praise the Lord!!!!!!!!