Does unconditional love or true love exist?

[Suze]

I think it only exists in the way that God loves us.

We say we love unconditionally but then we treat poorly, at times, those who we feel arent loving us back.

We break the toxic off from our lives because they are not good for us, allthough the chances are that they need love the most.

Some of us see evil in the world and instead of praying we become bitter and think harsh thoughts about those who we should be praying for.

I love my husband. I really do. But my love is far from unconditional.

I would say we hope to love perfectly, but we will all fail and be failed.

Thats where forgivness comes in.

These are just my thoughts

We will all fail and b failed , wise words from u . It's very true that we r all only human , however , we don't do anybody any favours if we consistently allow another person to treat us very badly without responding . We r not helping them or ourselves . Even a passive response is response . Walking away in silence speaks volumes and while I'm all for forgiveness , we don't have to have people who deliberately and regularly abuse us in our lives .

 

[Carlyw]

We will all fail and b failed , wise words from u . It's very true that we r all only human , however , we don't do anybody any favours if we consistently allow another person to treat us very badly without responding . We r not helping them or ourselves . Even a passive response is response . Walking away in silence speaks volumes and while I'm all for forgiveness , we don't have to have people who deliberately and regularly abuse us in our lives .

I agree to some extent, I think theres a proper way to react in all situations and that differs depending on who and what.

I think that there is a way to set boundaries that support both people and still allow for some form of connection in most toxic relationships

But for some, not at all.

Like a stalker can not be loved, they violate firm boundaries. They take and take. They do not have any form of respect. To allow connection in any form could be lethal.

Now a toxic family member, my whole family is uh...well..Ill just say we differ in many ways. I talk to them, but I dont meet up with them. I love them, but I set boundaries..which are often not even respected when we meet, hence why I will not go by them.

I think every situation is different and it is loving to cut ties at times. But for most situations its not, I think that proper boundaries being set up can help maintain a eviorment of love and respect for family, or abusive people when applicable/sensible.

 

[Suze]

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I agree to some extent, I think theres a proper way to react in all situations and that differs depending on who and what.

I think that there is a way to set boundaries that support both people and still allow for some form of connection in most toxic relationships

But for some, not at all.

Like a stalker can not be loved, they violate firm boundaries. They take and take. They do not have any form of respect. To allow connection in any form could be lethal.

Now a toxic family member, my whole family is uh...well..Ill just say we differ in many ways. I talk to them, but I dont meet up with them. I love them, but I set boundaries..which are often not even respected when we meet, hence why I will not go by them.

I think every situation is different and it is loving to cut ties at times. But for most situations its not, I think that proper boundaries being set up can help maintain a eviorment of love and respect for family, or abusive people when applicable/sensible.

U have a lovely attitude , my parents were also a bit..... different , I shall put it that way .When my mum and dad divorced , he was denied any access to me at all and that was definitely a good thing . If we think that someone is potentially dangerous , we should definitely keep away from them .

 

[Carlyw]

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U have a lovely attitude , my parents were also a bit..... different , I shall put it that way .When my mum and dad divorced , he was denied any access to me at all and that was definitely a good thing . If we think that someone is potentially dangerous , we should definitely keep away from them .

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